Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You already have enough student loan debt in your household. If you need the certificate for your job, you make the job pay for it.
I want the certificate so I can get a better job. My DH refuses to look for something more lucrative, so here I am.
Your DH makes 60k has 100k in debt and refuses to look for something more lucrative? That would be a red flag for me unless there is a darn good reason like tuition benefits for college or an incredible pension.
You have no idea how many times I have posted in the jobs forum about trying to encourage him to look for something else and the flack I have gotten for it and people telling me to get a different, better paying job myself. I’m just a money grabber, according to some.
Anyway, he has an incredible person, and we have a child together, so, again, here I am. I just want to be able to afford a place to live that isn’t 30 miles from work.