Anonymous
04/19/2019 07:53
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They are not obsessed with their social standing or class.
Anonymous
04/19/2019 07:37
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
oh my gosh this gave me a nice boost this morning. I do basically all of these things. Except for reading the list. on this website. which maybe negates them.
I"ve become acutely aware recently about the "gossip" one and whether a story or anecdote I am preparing to tell could be considered "gossip". I also recently have become aware about when what I'm being told is "gossip" and gently avoid listening. I realize now that the 3rd hand story about why my cousin in a state down south supposedly got divorced was gossip, had no bearing on my life why I would need to know details, and was none of my business. And it came from my mom. Sigh.
I"ve become acutely aware recently about the "gossip" one and whether a story or anecdote I am preparing to tell could be considered "gossip". I also recently have become aware about when what I'm being told is "gossip" and gently avoid listening. I realize now that the 3rd hand story about why my cousin in a state down south supposedly got divorced was gossip, had no bearing on my life why I would need to know details, and was none of my business. And it came from my mom. Sigh.
Anonymous
04/19/2019 06:35
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They don’t blame others for their shortcomings.
Anonymous
04/19/2019 06:18
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They are generous, because they are confident that they have “enough” and will not be diminished by sharing.
Anonymous
04/19/2019 06:04
Subject: Re:Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
Agree with traits listed above and will add not overly reactive--ability to remain calm and problem-solve
Anonymous
04/19/2019 05:58
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
Grateful
Anonymous
04/19/2019 05:02
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
Not gossiping is huge. Genuinely happy for others. No fomo.
Anonymous
04/18/2019 23:15
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
Anonymous wrote:Able to see big picture, accomplish goals without letting small things trip up their egos. Not overly-sensitive/easily offended. If offended, able to understand/attempt to understand the stuation without being reactionary/impulse/fly off the handle. Able to disagree and stand up for themselves without hard feelings/taking things personally.
This, plus being able to apologize and admit when they were wrong, and try to do better next time.
Anonymous
04/18/2019 22:31
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
Able to see big picture, accomplish goals without letting small things trip up their egos. Not overly-sensitive/easily offended. If offended, able to understand/attempt to understand the stuation without being reactionary/impulse/fly off the handle. Able to disagree and stand up for themselves without hard feelings/taking things personally.
Anonymous
04/18/2019 21:35
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They understand that life happens and they don’t fall apart when it does.
Anonymous
04/18/2019 21:24
Subject: Re:Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They are not on DCUM
Anonymous
04/18/2019 21:14
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They don’t gossip or speak badly of other people.
Anonymous
04/18/2019 21:12
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
they are kind
Anonymous
04/18/2019 21:07
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
They don’t start every conversation by talking about their unimportant and boring problems.
Anonymous
04/18/2019 21:05
Subject: Subtle signs someone is a well adjusted adult
What are the subtle signs someone is a functional adult?