Anonymous wrote:My lawyer said that a fair request is one year for every 4 years of marriage...SO maybe 6 months of alimony? I was married 17 years so we asked for 4 years of alimony and it was granted and not contested. People on this board say alimony is dead but I was divorced in 2017 and it was always assumed by both parties alimony would exist so I don't know how dead it is.
I think that sort of formula is based on an assumption that after a certain number of years out of the job market, it's harder to get back into it and you'll need more time. This person was not married even 4 years, so different situation than yours.