Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:41     Subject: Re:Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Did you meet him online?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:31     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We've all been there.

From a stable/loving/respectful married side, can I just tell you...get some heat off of the assholes and enjoy. Don't marry them, don't have kids with them, but get some and have some fun nights out on the town and live it up.

This is weirdly good stuff; don't miss it.


Having my feelings hurt isn't enjoyable. Im not a hookup girl which is probably why he ditched me. I want someone stable/loving/respectful


I get it. And you will have that someday. But once you have it, your entire life will be stable, loving and respectful. Part of you will want to go out and make some probably-bad choices, but you can't. But right now, you CAN! So keep pursuing what you ultimately want, but the mistakes along the way are all part of it. At least get some good kisses and free meals out of it.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:28     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Read this book. I swear I learned so much from it. I wouldn’t be married today without it. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/88965.Mars_and_Venus_on_a_Date

Hugs, and I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:26     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:We've all been there.

From a stable/loving/respectful married side, can I just tell you...get some heat off of the assholes and enjoy. Don't marry them, don't have kids with them, but get some and have some fun nights out on the town and live it up.

This is weirdly good stuff; don't miss it.


Having my feelings hurt isn't enjoyable. Im not a hookup girl which is probably why he ditched me. I want someone stable/loving/respectful
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:22     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Repeat after me:
He’s a jackass, and thank goodness I dodged that one.

Repeat 29 times. And as many more times as you need to.



Thanks. I just feel so stupid.


Okay, you get until midnight to stay with that thought. Then it’s gone. He doesn’t get to occupy your head space one minute into tomorrow. Today you can feel stupid; tomorrow you’ll be forgetful.


I'm going to try my best.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:20     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I must be a moron. I thought things were going well. We were talking every day and now suddenly he's ignoring me. I don't even know what I did wrong.

It's fine if he's not interested in me anymore, but this sucks. It's like people forget other people have feelings.


We live in a dog eat dog country where nobody gives a crap.
..


Clearly. So many assholes.


You think this is something new, with men in dating and relationships? Ha!


I don't date. Like at all. Guys really don't pay attention to me like that. .So it's new to me.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:19     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

We've all been there.

From a stable/loving/respectful married side, can I just tell you...get some heat off of the assholes and enjoy. Don't marry them, don't have kids with them, but get some and have some fun nights out on the town and live it up.

This is weirdly good stuff; don't miss it.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:19     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Repeat after me:
He’s a jackass, and thank goodness I dodged that one.

Repeat 29 times. And as many more times as you need to.



Thanks. I just feel so stupid.


Okay, you get until midnight to stay with that thought. Then it’s gone. He doesn’t get to occupy your head space one minute into tomorrow. Today you can feel stupid; tomorrow you’ll be forgetful.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:15     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:Repeat after me:
He’s a jackass, and thank goodness I dodged that one.

Repeat 29 times. And as many more times as you need to.



Thanks. I just feel so stupid.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:11     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I must be a moron. I thought things were going well. We were talking every day and now suddenly he's ignoring me. I don't even know what I did wrong.

It's fine if he's not interested in me anymore, but this sucks. It's like people forget other people have feelings.


We live in a dog eat dog country where nobody gives a crap.
..


Clearly. So many assholes.


You think this is something new, with men in dating and relationships? Ha!
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:07     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I must be a moron. I thought things were going well. We were talking every day and now suddenly he's ignoring me. I don't even know what I did wrong.

It's fine if he's not interested in me anymore, but this sucks. It's like people forget other people have feelings.


We live in a dog eat dog country where nobody gives a crap.
..


Clearly. So many assholes.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 21:06     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Repeat after me:
He’s a jackass, and thank goodness I dodged that one.

Repeat 29 times. And as many more times as you need to.

Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 20:48     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

Anonymous wrote:I must be a moron. I thought things were going well. We were talking every day and now suddenly he's ignoring me. I don't even know what I did wrong.

It's fine if he's not interested in me anymore, but this sucks. It's like people forget other people have feelings.


We live in a dog eat dog country where nobody gives a crap.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 19:56     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

It's the shinynewglittersparkles syndrome. People think that there is something better out there.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2019 19:49     Subject: Stupid me for thinking when he said he'd call he'd actually csll

I must be a moron. I thought things were going well. We were talking every day and now suddenly he's ignoring me. I don't even know what I did wrong.

It's fine if he's not interested in me anymore, but this sucks. It's like people forget other people have feelings.