3rd base or no?

Ages of you two?

Guy here. I was like this when I was younger and still under the Disney fantasy of romance, respecting women, wanting to appear different from other guys in not going after it, etc. I cringe just writing this. All of the action I missed by being brainwashed me.

But even back then I still would've at least felt you up.

I bet the guy hasn't had sex for a long time, and is nervous.

Anonymous wrote:How many dates had you been on?
How many times had you kissed?
Did you make moves on him?

I can see the opposite post. First date, I invite the guy in for coffee and to watch Netflix and he is all over me, like he expects sex just because I went on a date with him. The responses would all be how he is an asshole, sexual assault etc.

Simple. Men are thrown for a loop regarding what they should do.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

He was probably bewildered by your parlous slaughtering of the actual phrase.

Actually, OP put a twist on it. Normally it’s Netflix and Chill. Not cuddle.

Yeah, but if she said “cuddle” instead of chill that’s a clear signal that you’re not interested in the “hookup” part.

Chill = anything from making out to sex

Cuddle = cuddle

Exactly. Which is why I said that OP for exactly what she asked for and maybe he respected her. He wasn’t bewildered. He was listening.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

He was probably bewildered by your parlous slaughtering of the actual phrase.

Actually, OP put a twist on it. Normally it’s Netflix and Chill. Not cuddle.

Yeah, but if she said “cuddle” instead of chill that’s a clear signal that you’re not interested in the “hookup” part.

Chill = anything from making out to sex

Cuddle = cuddle

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

He was probably bewildered by your parlous slaughtering of the actual phrase.

Actually, OP put a twist on it. Normally it’s Netflix and Chill. Not cuddle.

Um, yes. That butchery is what I was referring to.

Point being OP got exactly what she asked for. Intended or not.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

He was probably bewildered by your parlous slaughtering of the actual phrase.

Actually, OP put a twist on it. Normally it’s Netflix and Chill. Not cuddle.

Um, yes. That butchery is what I was referring to.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

He was probably bewildered by your parlous slaughtering of the actual phrase.

Actually, OP put a twist on it. Normally it’s Netflix and Chill. Not cuddle.

Why don't you make the moves instead of him? A lot of men are cautious due to all the #metoo stuff

Anonymous wrote:I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?

He was probably bewildered by your parlous slaughtering of the actual phrase.

How many dates had you been on?
How many times had you kissed?
Did you make moves on him?

I can see the opposite post. First date, I invite the guy in for coffee and to watch Netflix and he is all over me, like he expects sex just because I went on a date with him. The responses would all be how he is an asshole, sexual assault etc.

I find your assumption that men only want to get in your pants offensive. Maybe he doesn’t want to rush things. Maybe he’s a gentleman and didn’t want to pressure you.

Or he respects you.

I'm back dating again. I invited a guy inside to Netflix and cuddle. He only kissed and no overt moves. Is he not interested in me?