Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 14:03     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Is hosting you some kind of privilege for her?

I admit, I’m not totally following the bouncing ball.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:50     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Locks?


Only on bathroom doors.


Better yet, save your money and stay at her house, but get a hotel room door lock and don't tell her; then let her try to come in. There's a bunch on Amazon, but here are 2.

https://www.amazon.com/Addalock-Portable-Travel-AirBNB-Lockdown/dp/B00186URTY?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_3


https://www.amazon.com/DoorJammer-Portable-Security-Personal-Protection/dp/B00N95IVSQ?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_9


Nope, the ruckus would still disturb us/wake us up. And her trying to get in without knocking is still disrespecting me. Instead, she's losing out on us ever staying on her home. Ever. She's done. We're driving away as we speak, and nodded at the Hampton Inn on our way out of town. That's our new New Jersey home away from home.


Ok, so what are you looking for from DCUM? Are you just venting?


Are you new here? Yes, sometimes people vent and commiserate on DCUM. Welcome!
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:49     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Locks?


Only on bathroom doors.


Better yet, save your money and stay at her house, but get a hotel room door lock and don't tell her; then let her try to come in. There's a bunch on Amazon, but here are 2.

https://www.amazon.com/Addalock-Portable-Travel-AirBNB-Lockdown/dp/B00186URTY?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_3


https://www.amazon.com/DoorJammer-Portable-Security-Personal-Protection/dp/B00N95IVSQ?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_9


Nope, the ruckus would still disturb us/wake us up. And her trying to get in without knocking is still disrespecting me. Instead, she's losing out on us ever staying on her home. Ever. She's done. We're driving away as we speak, and nodded at the Hampton Inn on our way out of town. That's our new New Jersey home away from home.


Ok, so what are you looking for from DCUM? Are you just venting?
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:44     Subject: Re:And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Who vacuums at 6 a.m.? With guests over? Shouldn't shew have vacuumed before you arrived?

Seems like she wanted to disturb you.

I would have handed her the screaming baby and gone back to bed. "You woke up Larla so you get to watch her for the next hour!"
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:44     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Locks?


Only on bathroom doors.


Better yet, save your money and stay at her house, but get a hotel room door lock and don't tell her; then let her try to come in. There's a bunch on Amazon, but here are 2.

https://www.amazon.com/Addalock-Portable-Travel-AirBNB-Lockdown/dp/B00186URTY?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_3


https://www.amazon.com/DoorJammer-Portable-Security-Personal-Protection/dp/B00N95IVSQ?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_9


Nope, the ruckus would still disturb us/wake us up. And her trying to get in without knocking is still disrespecting me. Instead, she's losing out on us ever staying on her home. Ever. She's done. We're driving away as we speak, and nodded at the Hampton Inn on our way out of town. That's our new New Jersey home away from home.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:40     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:Old people gonna old.


Don't excuse rudeness because a person's gotten older.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:40     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Locks?


Only on bathroom doors.


Better yet, save your money and stay at her house, but get a hotel room door lock and don't tell her; then let her try to come in. There's a bunch on Amazon, but here are 2.

https://www.amazon.com/Addalock-Portable-Travel-AirBNB-Lockdown/dp/B00186URTY?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_3


https://www.amazon.com/DoorJammer-Portable-Security-Personal-Protection/dp/B00N95IVSQ?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_9
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:37     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
You are right.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:31     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:Locks?


Only on bathroom doors.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:31     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Anonymous wrote:Old people gonna old.


She's 66 and has done this for the 10 years I've known her.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:30     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Locks?
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:30     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
She has actually told me before that knocking isn't asking to come in; it's telling you I'm coming in.

No, MIL. No more. You are done.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:30     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
Old people gonna old.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:29     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
WTF? How do people make it through life being this crazy an rude? Glad your DH is backing you up, OP.
Anonymous
Post 03/24/2019 13:27     Subject: And I'm officially done with staying at MIL's house
MIL has never knocked when enterIng the guest bedrooms we occupy during visits and ALWAYS enters occupied room during stays. This has happened while we dated and stayed in separate rooms, engaged, married, and with kids. She's caught me undressed before. Interrupted breastfeeding, interrupted kid naps. DH has asked her to knock and leave us alone but she thinks she can go anywhere in her house! anytime.

Well, she woke the baby up at 6 a.m. to get a vacuum out of the closet, and I'm DONE. Told her to her face we are staying in hotels from now on. It's WWIII but DH agrees with me.

Sorry, MIL. You made this bed. Lie in it.