Anonymous wrote:And please don’t lecture me on the benefits of having more than one child. I’m all too aware. Unfortunately, it wasn’t in the cards.
I have a super introverted only, who is 8. I keep her very busy, but she is relentless and overwhelming. I’m parenting alone, and I’m seriously on the verge of losing my mind lately.
For example, this week we did three extracurriculars outside of the house, all running well into the evening. She saw friends, did activities, and was engaged. But even when we get home she’s go-go-go.
We eat dinner and I try to clean up and she wants my constant attention.
I have loads of catchup to do today (laundry, cleaning, etc) because Thur and Fri we were out until 7 and 9pm doing her stuff. I’m hiding in the laundry room typing this because she won’t leave me alone asking if I’m done yet and what we are doing next. I want to do nothing, but that is impossible. I don’t have money for a sitter to take her somewhere.
I’m at a loss and on the verge of a mental breakdown! (I’m exaggerating, I have it under control, really.) But I feel like I never have a moments peace. Even at bedtime she’s 100mph. It’s go-go-go from the second she’s awake until the second she falls asleep.
Please don’t insult me, I’m doing my best. But doesn’t anyone have any suggestions for dealing with an overwhelming child?
*extroverted, obviously!