Anonymous wrote:Once a week is what we do, too. If we can fit another time in, great, but often it doesn’t work out. We’re both happy with it, though.

Same.

Until perimenopause hit me, daily was ideal. I was insatiable.

Hormones are killing me. It’s not exactly that I’m uninterested. It’s just not the same. I’m okay with once or maybe even twice a week, but I really only want it about once every 4-6 weeks. I never thought this would be me.

I like it in increasing frequency as ovulation approaches. Zero desire after ovulation, or when I'm on any form of hormonal birth control.

Once a month but I try to do it weekly to stay married and keep my DH sane.

4-5 times per week. It refreshes me; the best stress relief ever.

Anonymous wrote:Never

+1. With my husband, anyway. With the right man, I’m insatiable.

I'd be happy with once per month.
However, I love my spouse very, very much and he would really like it 2-3 times per week. So I make sure we have sex once a week with a few blow jobs thrown in there in between. He's so absolutely dedicated to me in every way and always puts my needs above his. I try hard to reciprocate by putting his needs in this area above my own because I know it matters so much to him.

3x a week at 10am

Reality - more please
Fantasy - everyday

Never

Quearterly

Daily, unless I'm totally exhausted or sick.

Once a week is what we do, too. If we can fit another time in, great, but often it doesn’t work out. We’re both happy with it, though.

1x per week. We went through a few droughts with pregnancies, but this seems to be where we settle in.

With a 1 & 3 year old, I’m chalking it up as a win.

Is there a match or mismatch between you and your DH?

My DH and I have sex about 6 times a month, I would say. I know that is not a lot for a lot of people apparently, but we are both really happy with this. I know this because I never turn him down for sex and he never turns me down for sex.

Others?