39 year old male here.

Sex 2/3 times a week is ideal. Intimacy everyday is crucial.

Anonymous wrote:I envy you all. I'm at 8 months with nothing. I would be the happiest person alive if I could get to once per month.

+1

Last year we decided to do it every night for a week or more to see how it would work out. We both work and we have young children so being very tired at the end of the day is normal for us. For about the first 3 or 4 days it was great but we both felt that we were losing our intensity as we ended the week. We weren't as excited about getting started and the energy level wasn't there. Now we are back to 2-3 times a week with no set schedule. If one of us wants it we just make it happen. All my wife has to say is "I'm going to bed...would you like to join me?" and I know what she means with the magic word "join."

I am 55. Wouldn't say no to every day but "every other day" would be ideal.

Daily is way too much for me with 2 to 3 times a week being ideal. Daily would most likely be quickies and that's not ideal for either of us. We like to take our time with some very nice foreplay followed by one or two of a half a dozen or so different positions.

Need is bit of a stretch.

You mean want.

We did it 6xs over this past weekend.

I envy you all. I'm at 8 months with nothing. I would be the happiest person alive if I could get to once per month.

65 and 2-3X would be great but we are closer to once every 5-6 days. I can't and don't complain because the sex is still very good and she had gotten more adventurous with age.

Early 40s here. 2-4 x a week would be nice if more adventurous then more. Right now we are 2x a month and it's sucks, and I haven't been good at coping faithfully

Anonymous wrote:Wife here but my husband needs it at least once a week or he is a total grump. It's honestly funny to me how much an orgasm affects his mood for days afterward.

It's honestly funny to me how much you can't read.

Late 40s man here. My minimum is twice per week. I don’t think I really have a maximum. I could enjoy daily or even multiples per day.

If my ex had been willing to have sex about 2x a week and her be the one to initiate once in a while, OR at least go to counseling to work TOWARD that... we might very well still be married.

Wife here but my husband needs it at least once a week or he is a total grump. It's honestly funny to me how much an orgasm affects his mood for days afterward.

What’s your ideal frequency? Is daily too much?