I don’t understand the nature of your relationship with him. You’re not dating even casually, so why are you feeling threatened by another woman? Your post reads as if he’s cheating on you with this woman. I’m confused.

Trust your intuition OP.

It is rarely, or ever wrong.

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Says the player. Op is doing what she should be doing. This is how you avoid dating married men and other drama by paying attention! Every woman should have her eyes wide open when she's interested in a guy before feelings get too deep and judgement gets cloudy.

Yes op , trust your gut and stop spending time with him if you want anything more than friendship. You will never have a drama free and trusting relationship with this guy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Actually it is her business. No she can't demand he not see his female friend. But she absolutely can and should evaluate this man and his relationships at this stage and decide if she wants things to progress with this man or not.

But she can’t complsin about this man’s relationship with another woman - that’s what she was saying.

Actually that's not in the op at all. Thread is still on the first page, it really shouldn't be that hard for you to follow. Do you have a comprehension problem?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Exactly. Maybe stop letting him ‘play you’ against this other gal and find a real boyfriend ?

Maybe you should read before commenting.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Actually it is her business. No she can't demand he not see his female friend. But she absolutely can and should evaluate this man and his relationships at this stage and decide if she wants things to progress with this man or not.

But she can’t complsin about this man’s relationship with another woman - that’s what she was saying.

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Exactly. Maybe stop letting him ‘play you’ against this other gal and find a real boyfriend ?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Actually it is her business. No she can't demand he not see his female friend. But she absolutely can and should evaluate this man and his relationships at this stage and decide if she wants things to progress with this man or not.

Exactly.

Anonymous wrote:If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

Actually it is her business. No she can't demand he not see his female friend. But she absolutely can and should evaluate this man and his relationships at this stage and decide if she wants things to progress with this man or not.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, definitely trust your gut about this.
You go, girl! Hugs.

+1

If you aren’t really dating then it’s none of your business.

When it comes to guys ALWAYS trust your gut! Ghost him now and save yourself the future heartbeak!

Probably sex partners. She might be hoping for more hence the strange behavior.

Yes, definitely trust your gut about this.
You go, girl! Hugs.

We are not a couple yet or even really dating just talking to each other. I met his friends and I like all of them but one girl. She's not his only female friend. There's just something about the way they interact that my gut doesn't trust. He says they are just friends. They follow each other on social media her pages are private. I really like him and have fun when we spend time together but I keep getting that feeling of not to trust that relationship.

I probably should stop talking to him now , right?