Anonymous wrote:My experiences with pretty women:

1. Pretty girl who grew up middle class but due to having a great body and model good looks always received a lot of attention. She always was and is a "striver" and now has become even more focused on that. She only exclusively befriends rich, pretty blonde girls just like her and if you aren't good looking AND rich, she will completely ignore you or bully you.

2. Gorgeous friend in college. Half lebanese half white. An heiress. Model good looks. She was a sweetheart and very kind and was actually shy. She befriended anyone and since she already had looks and status had nothing to prove. We were good friends. She was always very sweet but very...supercial. Most of our conversations were about skincare, clothes, makeup and designer brands. She is now married to an investment banker and spends her time traveling around the world in cute clothes.

3.This friend was plain looking when we were younger. Overtime she lost her babyfat and learned to do her hair and makeup. She became conventionally attractive and started receiving a lot of attention. In about 3 years changed a lot about herself to assimilate into and be with the "higher social status" people and women. She also almost exclusively befriends rich pretty girls and pose for insta pictures together. She dumped all of her regular looking friends.

Anonymous wrote:As someone who's often called pretty, and who makes and sustains solid friendships fairly easily, I'll say this: if you make assumptions about people based on purely on how they look, you are going to struggle with relationships. That's on you, not them. I like people who are kind and down to earth and funny and all that good stuff. If people are unkind or snobby or selfish, I don't engage with them. Their looks don't factor in.

I was not always pretty, and was bullied pretty horribly when I was much younger. Maybe that's taught me empathy, or not to judge a book by it's cover, but anytime someone avoids an entire group of people based on nothing related to character, that's a major problem.

Anonymous wrote:I've always been pretty, and always made friends easily. And I'm not only friends with people who are traditionally pretty.

I think you will find what you look for. If you look to see that pretty people are bitchy, you will see that. That author talked about how the models she knew were mean and crazy. But what about all the pretty people who are neither of those?

Sometimes I'm in a quiet mood, and maybe that makes people think I'm aloof or bitchy. I shouldn't have to over-compensate for the way you THINK I may be.

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes they just lay there in bed too. They think looking good is enough.

You can never go wrong with the "go ugly early strategy". They know they aren't beautiful, so they are usually extremely kind and they are very appreciative of attention.

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes they just lay there in bed too. They think looking good is enough.

You can never go wrong with the "go ugly early strategy". They know they aren't beautiful, so they are usually extremely kind and they are very appreciative of attention.

Anonymous wrote:You can never go wrong with the "go ugly early strategy". They know they aren't beautiful, so they are usually extremely kind and they are very appreciative of attention.

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes they just lay there in bed too. They think looking good is enough.

You can never go wrong with the "go ugly early strategy". They know they aren't beautiful, so they are usually extremely kind and they are very appreciative of attention.