Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 15:52     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Unfortunately for my husband, I am only really into sex when ovulation is near. Any other time if the month takes me forever to get "warmed up" and it's just nowhere near as good and satisfying.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 14:36     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Yes right before my period I"m out of control horny. Thank god we love sex!
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 14:34     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Anonymous wrote:OP here makes sense! A week of sex, 3 weeks off...her cycle..she is on birth control that eliminates her period so I didn't make that connection.


But the BC should actually eliminate these hormonal swings .... because she isn't ovulating.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:58     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

This is me right now and I am mid-cycle and my SO is out of town! I keep sending sending him sexy messages and he is worked up too. JUST THREE MORE DAYS.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:56     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

OP here makes sense! A week of sex, 3 weeks off...her cycle..she is on birth control that eliminates her period so I didn't make that connection.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:52     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Anonymous wrote:Hormones are crazy.


They aren't crazy, at least OP's wife isn't. They make biological sense...DW is horny around the time she is most fertile.

A lot is still misunderstood, but I think it actually is damaging to women to dismiss hormonal changes as "crazy." Frustrating? For sure.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:50     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Everyone saying hormones is correct. Hormones are a powerful force. I’m insatiable as ovulation approaches, then it’s like I need a break until the next month. I’ll still go a few rounds with DH to finish off the month, but it’s different and I could take it or leave it.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:48     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Yup, hormones.

For my wife, days ~5 - 15 of her cycle are potential days for sex. Days 16 - 28, 1-4 aren't worth the bother of initiating.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:24     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Hormones are crazy.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:23     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

It is common for women to have different libido levels during different parts of their cycle.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:23     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

hormonal. at the beginning of my cycle to ovulation I want it every day. second half pretty indifferent. of course I can still enjoy sex whenever, but I'm more motivated at the beginning.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:22     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

She's about ready to start her period, so she's horny
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:19     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Anonymous wrote:We've been on a 4 day sex binge. We're both WFH and had a quickie at her request at lunch. She just started in with a BJ out of no where. Then what will happen is we will go nearly 3 weeks without sex. It is like she stockpiles it.


It depends on where she is in her cycle.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:18     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

Does she want a baby?
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2019 13:17     Subject: I dont understand my wife's sex drive....

We've been on a 4 day sex binge. We're both WFH and had a quickie at her request at lunch. She just started in with a BJ out of no where. Then what will happen is we will go nearly 3 weeks without sex. It is like she stockpiles it.