Anonymous wrote:As someone who has renovated a home, it would be glorious to not have to do that. Huge pain in the a$$ and always much much more money than anticipated.
+1, I am having trouble understanding the dilemma. OP likes the house, likes the renovations, couldn't do the renovations herself for the what the seller is asking, and won't have the hassle of remodeling. Win.
Just buy the house you want to live in and can afford. Appreciation is only realized when you sell (or second mortgage) and it sounds like you plan to be here long term.