Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:42     Subject: Re:I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
I’m sorry OP. Been there. All I can say is that the universe has your back. I’m 45 and all romantic relationships that ended that I didn’t want at the time to end we’re blessings in disguise because they Les me to my husband who I wouldn’t trade for the world. The pain will get easier. In the meantime hugs
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:37     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Did he break up with you for her, or did you break up and he subsequently started dating her?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:34     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Hugs op. That sucks, I’m sorry. How long ago did you break up?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:18     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Uh why are you hanging out with your ex?

I’m not. I went out last night with friends and he was there with her.


A bad coincidence. Try not to go to places where you have a high chance of seeing him.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:16     Subject: Re:I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Anonymous wrote:You are feeling misdirected anger: you hate her because you are not ready yet to hate him. Give it time and you will see that he is not the man for you


+1.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:14     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Up your game and chin up! Give yourself a literal mantra that you repeat constantly- like “a better match is coming my way.” “I’m a great catch!” ...
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:14     Subject: Re:I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
You are feeling misdirected anger: you hate her because you are not ready yet to hate him. Give it time and you will see that he is not the man for you
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:13     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Anonymous wrote:How long were you dating, OP?


A little over a year.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:11     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
How long were you dating, OP?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 10:08     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Get a threesome going.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 09:52     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Go on a lot of dates.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 09:51     Subject: Re:I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
That sucks, I'm sorry OP. Try to keep busy so you don't think about it.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 09:42     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Anonymous wrote:Uh why are you hanging out with your ex?

I’m not. I went out last night with friends and he was there with her.
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 09:34     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
Uh why are you hanging out with your ex?
Anonymous
Post 12/15/2018 09:33     Subject: I saw him with the woman he left me for last night and it hurt.
He looked happy. They looked happy and in love which sucked. That shouldn’t have been a surprise to me. I guess I just hoped he would change his mind.

She’s pretty and nice too which also stung. I wanted her to be a monster so I could go on justify hating her. We could probably have been friends in an alternate universe where she wasn’t my ex’s new girlfriend.

I hate that I’m thinking about him/ then. I be been good the last 2 weeks not looking at his social media. Deleted his number so I didn’t do anything stupid. Now all I can think about is them kissing and how he used to kiss me.
Ugh!

This isn’t my first break up. I’ve been dating since I was 16 and I’ll be 26 in a few weeks. I thought he was the one.