Anonymous wrote:Please don’t hit on me in the grocery store. I go there to shop and be alone.
-38yo brunette
why do you regret it?Anonymous wrote:I dated someone 9 years older at that age and regret it
so you’re saying I’m fetishizing them essentially? I understand that argument, but I’m also looking for a relationship.Anonymous wrote:The point you missed is that you're thinking of "older women" as an experience, not as individuals. That's not going to get you far. Older women with younger men happens often enough, but when it does it generally happens organically - a young guy and a woman who's part of his circle fall for each other. Think Macron and his much older wife. She was his teacher. If you go out cougar hunting, most women will laugh you off.
Anonymous wrote:i didn’t say I want ANY older woman. When I say older, I’m talking around 35-50. I’d prefer a white woman, brunette or blonde but open to anything else.Anonymous wrote:The problem is that you want ANY older woman, rather than that there is a specific woman you like who just happens to be older.
How much older are you talking about? College-age would not make me blink. Honestly anyone over 24 would, because your frontal lobe hasn't even finished developing yet so you're simply too immature, and because of your physical age, have too little life experience for you to be interesting.
i didn’t say I want ANY older woman. When I say older, I’m talking around 35-50. I’d prefer a white woman, brunette or blonde but open to anything else.Anonymous wrote:The problem is that you want ANY older woman, rather than that there is a specific woman you like who just happens to be older.
How much older are you talking about? College-age would not make me blink. Honestly anyone over 24 would, because your frontal lobe hasn't even finished developing yet so you're simply too immature, and because of your physical age, have too little life experience for you to be interesting.
Anonymous wrote:I don’t have mommy issues. My mom and I get along great but she does annoy me at times.
She’d have to be single and have no kids because I know the kids will judge me for being closer to their age than their mom. Is there some type of cougar dating site? Would it be inappropriate if I approached an older woman at Giant or Safeway for example?
Anonymous wrote:The problem is that you want ANY older woman, rather than that there is a specific woman you like who just happens to be older.
How much older are you talking about? College-age would not make me blink. Honestly anyone over 24 would, because your frontal lobe hasn't even finished developing yet so you're simply too immature, and because of your physical age, have too little life experience for you to be interesting.