Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 21:22     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:How did you find out, OP?


When I heard his wife being talked about.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 21:13     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Keep your head up. You will encounter married men while dating. Learn to move on fast.


I have a friend who falls really hard for people she's not in a relationship with, and when nothing comes of it she needs a recovery period like she's mourning a divorce.


This is me. Part of the reason why I stopped dating five years ago. Pity me if you want, but my mental health is much improved when men are not complicating factors in my life.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 21:08     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
This happened to me many times in my past. Happily married now for 15 years. Don’t expend mental energy on that ass,OP. Just move on. You’ll meet someone great.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 20:19     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
How did you find out, OP?
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 19:57     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:I was excited thinking maybe someone I was into was actually into me and something might happen.


Maybe he was and maybe it would have?
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 19:21     Subject: Re:I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:Uh do you think everyone you flirt with / flirts with you will lead to a relationship? Who cares?

The check out guy was flirting with me at Whole Foods today. Newsflash it didn’t go anywhere.


Are you always a jerk? For some reason I don’t think op was referring to a one time episode of flirting. It’s not unreasonable to think if someone continuously flirts with you they might be interested.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 19:01     Subject: Re:I give up! He has a wife.
Uh do you think everyone you flirt with / flirts with you will lead to a relationship? Who cares?

The check out guy was flirting with me at Whole Foods today. Newsflash it didn’t go anywhere.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:39     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why do people with spouses flirt? I seriously have zero luck with men. I’m just going to give in to what the universe seems to want for me, cats are cute.


The spouse is probably thinking the same thing (I know I am).


This is not about you.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:34     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:Why do people with spouses flirt? I seriously have zero luck with men. I’m just going to give in to what the universe seems to want for me, cats are cute.


The spouse is probably thinking the same thing (I know I am).
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:33     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Keep your head up. You will encounter married men while dating. Learn to move on fast.


+1

I'll add learn not to put to much emotional energy into flirtations - keep it light and keep looking for something more serious. I have a friend who falls really hard for people she's not in a relationship with, and when nothing comes of it she needs a recovery period like she's mourning a divorce. Don't get too invested before you know a person pretty well.


I try not to get too invested. I’m not a woman who gets much attention. I was excited thinking maybe someone I was into was actually into me and something might happen.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:21     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:Keep your head up. You will encounter married men while dating. Learn to move on fast.


+1

I'll add learn not to put to much emotional energy into flirtations - keep it light and keep looking for something more serious. I have a friend who falls really hard for people she's not in a relationship with, and when nothing comes of it she needs a recovery period like she's mourning a divorce. Don't get too invested before you know a person pretty well.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:18     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Keep your head up. You will encounter married men while dating. Learn to move on fast.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:11     Subject: Re:I give up! He has a wife.
Anonymous wrote:Did you not see his ring?


He wasn’t wearing a ring.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:08     Subject: Re:I give up! He has a wife.
Did you not see his ring?
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2018 18:00     Subject: I give up! He has a wife.
Why do people with spouses flirt? I seriously have zero luck with men. I’m just going to give in to what the universe seems to want for me, cats are cute.