Come on OP tell us what happened ? You’ll find when you start dating again there are many vengeful exes and the only winners are the lawyers. It does sound corney but the best revenge is living a better happier life.

You are a job creator. Making jobs in the future for your kids' therapists. That is so forward-thinking of you! When you know they feel stuck in the middle of your petty vengeance and they cry themselves to sleep. Then as adults when they can't trust anyone, are anxious and depressed and can't have a stable relationship!! Fun!!

Best revenge is to move on and not give a F anymore. Be healthy and happy.

Anonymous wrote:Find a woman who is better than your ex and let her play mom to your kids. That will make her miserable.

This will make your kids miserable.

OP, it’s going to keep coming back to sacrificing your kids’ happiness and possibly mental health to achieve your goal. How committed are you to really destroying her? If the kids’ well-being and your relationship with them aren’t on the table, you are just trolling us. Come back when you are willing to seriously eff them up in pursuit of your wife’s misery.

I wouldn't do this. Just try to get on with your life. You being happy is the ultimate revenge on the ex. Your kids will suffer the most if you cannot get over it. I was always stuck in the middle of my parents during their divorce and it was the roughest time of my life. I would cry many nights because they hated each other so much and as their child, was a part of both of them, I felt that I was double what they each hated. "Your just like your mom/dad!" --was probably the thing that hurt the most.

Why do you want this woman to take up anymore of your time/energy if she’s so awful? Sounds like she’s “winning.”

If your children have a miserable mother and a vengeful, bitter father, they will have a miserable, bitter life.

Happy holidays!

She is well rid of you.

Find a woman who is better than your ex and let her play mom to your kids. That will make her miserable.

Anonymous wrote:Be happy.

This. Live your life the best you can. Think of that as the best revenge.

It will cost you your children.

Are you really sure you don't care what it costs?

Be happy.

Making her life miserable will make your kids' lives miserable is well. Is that what you want?

It will cost your four kids’ love and respect.

How can I make my STBX wife's life miserable. She's ruined my life and I want to do whatever I can to screw her over during the divorce process. I don't care what it costs. We're in MD with 4 kids/ Separated and sharing custody.