Anonymous wrote:My mother is in her mid 80s and has has several strokes, so she is frail.
She used to tell me how she always wanted an overhead rainfall shower head. It reminded her of her childhood bathroom. To this date, when she sees one in a catalogue, she points at it.
We can not go to the expense of putting one in our house. However, several hotels in the area have them. I am thinking of booking a night in one of the downtown hotels with such a shower head. We could all go down and have fun spending a night downtown.
I know that this sound ridiculous, but I think that I will have lingering guilt if I don't fulfill her wish.
Am I being nutty? I have some guilt about not taking better care of another elderly family member who passed away.
It would be great if you could put one in your house- but the hotel is a beautiful idea. I'm not close with my mom- these threads make we wish that we had the kind of relationship that other people have. No, you're not being "nutty" for making your mom happy.