Anonymous
11/27/2018 14:16
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
As Anothe PP notes, DH does this any time it’s a CC receipt. He checks every single one on his statement.
To me, this is making light of his being careful on his statements vs. a crack against you.
That being said, if you’re already assuming the worse, then maybe your relationship isn’t the one you should be in.
To me, this is making light of his being careful on his statements vs. a crack against you.
That being said, if you’re already assuming the worse, then maybe your relationship isn’t the one you should be in.
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:33
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
That alone isn't a red flag. Are there other things that have happened?
Did he say it jokingly or with a smile, or more of a threatening tone?
Did he say it jokingly or with a smile, or more of a threatening tone?
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:31
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
Super weird. I hate men who are cheap if they have money. Run.
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:30
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
Anonymous wrote:no he probably has a receipt app! my husband does. it helps him keep track of expenses. I will try to find it. I bet he takes photos of many receipts and he just made a poor joke at the moment. He is not really taking a photo of the receipt to remember it!
me again. I just googled and there are several apps out there for this.
however, I would just ask him! communicate! if my husband did that I would say Wait are you serious?! and then he would realize it was a poor joke and then say oh no sorry that was a bad joke blah blah
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:28
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
no he probably has a receipt app! my husband does. it helps him keep track of expenses. I will try to find it. I bet he takes photos of many receipts and he just made a poor joke at the moment. He is not really taking a photo of the receipt to remember it!
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:26
Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?
Red flag that points out corny not-funny person who tries unsuccessfully to be funny. I couldn't live with that long term.
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:26
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
Anonymous wrote:Not as much as red flag as brown stamping the sheets, but still a red flag.
what?
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:21
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
Damn humor is dead.
Everybody in outright panic mode over every little thing.
Everybody in outright panic mode over every little thing.
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:21
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
Anonymous wrote:I think the ACTUAL taking of the picture is pretty weird. But if he was generally not a cheap jack-a then it wouldn't make me break up with him.
You've been dating him for over a year, is this the last in a pattern of weird score keeping/controlling-with-money incidents or just a joke that didn't hit its mark?
And was it expensive like Jaleo or expensive like Ruth Chris or expensive like Pineapple and Pearls?
Note it's "Ruth's Chris"
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:20
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
Not as much as red flag as brown stamping the sheets, but still a red flag.
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:19
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
When's his birthday?
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:19
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
I think the ACTUAL taking of the picture is pretty weird. But if he was generally not a cheap jack-a then it wouldn't make me break up with him.
You've been dating him for over a year, is this the last in a pattern of weird score keeping/controlling-with-money incidents or just a joke that didn't hit its mark?
And was it expensive like Jaleo or expensive like Ruth Chris or expensive like Pineapple and Pearls?
You've been dating him for over a year, is this the last in a pattern of weird score keeping/controlling-with-money incidents or just a joke that didn't hit its mark?
And was it expensive like Jaleo or expensive like Ruth Chris or expensive like Pineapple and Pearls?
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:18
Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?
Bad joke but I could live with it. He may have had more wine then needed.
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:15
Subject: Re:Would you see this as a red flag?
He's probably just being funny. I wouldn't think much of it. Btw, how much was the tab?
Anonymous
11/27/2018 13:13
Subject: Would you see this as a red flag?
You’re dating a guy for a little over a year, and he takes you out to a somewhat expensive restaurant for your birthday. He gets the bill and takes a picture of it and says I need to remember this when my birthday comes around. Would you consider this to be a red flag?