Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 12:04     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Anonymous wrote:Second DUI arrest. If he was some retiree, or we had older kids, or he worked in a different field, it wouldn't be such a big deal. But we have a baby on the way and two kids he can barely help with because he has so many DUI related after -hours obligations (AA, other self-help meetings, community service, etc). We are also now living in constant anxiety of him getting fired if and when his current place of employment finds out.


Or killing someone by driving drunk, which seems to not concern you...
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:37     Subject: Re:The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Reading my journal without my permission.
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:31     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Years of abuse (emotional, financial, physical). It took me about six months of my own therapy to understand he is mentally ill and forgive him. It was worth it to let go, and be able to truly close that chapter of my life.


forgave and left him or forgave and still together?


Therapy>>>left>>>more therapy>>>forgave (but didn’t return).
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:28     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Smoking again after quitting. He fully quit 1 year after dating and was good for 7 years. His friend moved close to us and he smokes and DH started again (a couple a day ). I knew right away and he didn't try to lie to me about it. After 3 months he agreed to quit again and did so successfully. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of things
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:26     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Eating the last M and M
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:25     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Second DUI arrest. If he was some retiree, or we had older kids, or he worked in a different field, it wouldn't be such a big deal. But we have a baby on the way and two kids he can barely help with because he has so many DUI related after -hours obligations (AA, other self-help meetings, community service, etc). We are also now living in constant anxiety of him getting fired if and when his current place of employment finds out.
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:12     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Bahaha. Spouse sending my nude pic to his coworker.......
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 11:10     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Thankfully, the hardest thing I have forgiven dh for is getting parking tickets. This is the worst thing he's done in 25 years. I hate wasting money and tickets are avoidable. He's gotten dozens of them.
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 10:57     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Long term affair and a love child it produced.
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 10:37     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Being a Redskins fan.
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 10:35     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Anonymous wrote:Years of abuse (emotional, financial, physical). It took me about six months of my own therapy to understand he is mentally ill and forgive him. It was worth it to let go, and be able to truly close that chapter of my life.


forgave and left him or forgave and still together?
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 10:32     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
physical abuse
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 06:10     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Years of abuse (emotional, financial, physical). It took me about six months of my own therapy to understand he is mentally ill and forgive him. It was worth it to let go, and be able to truly close that chapter of my life.
Anonymous
Post 10/24/2018 05:01     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Sexting with strangers on the internet.
DUI years ago, and now a full blown drinking problem.
I thought it was worth it. But he’s being a pretty bad father now. That is what will likely drive me away.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2018 19:28     Subject: The hardest thing you've forgiven?
Why's the worst thing you've forgiven your spouse for? How long did it take you to forgive? Was it worth it?