Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is a defensive move to try and assure everyone that don't worry it's okay, they are just fine not having a daughter (because people tend to assume you want a daughter.) Agree it's off-putting and makes those of us with both genders roll our eyes hard.
You will never see a mother with both sons and daughters trying to invent a ridiculous identity around this, and that tells you everything you need to know.
I never refer to myself as a #boymom but I do have three boys and it really grates on me how people always seem to assume that I wish I had at least one girl, especially moms of all girls (#girlmom?). I had zero preference, but the pitying looks get old. I can see why some embrace being a parent of all boys since we get so much shit for it.
Anonymous wrote:My sister does this, and she desperately wanted a girl and is very sad that she's done with kids and won't get one. I'm pregnant now and she keeps insisting it's a girl because in her mind, I always get what she wanted. But on Facebook/Insta/etc, it's #boymom and #boytribe and #allmyboys.
It's just the same thing as any time someone protests too much on social media. #soinlove tags on every picture? They fight all the time. Such soul mates that they share a profile? One of them cheated. And so forth.
Anonymous wrote:It is a defensive move to try and assure everyone that don't worry it's okay, they are just fine not having a daughter (because people tend to assume you want a daughter.) Agree it's off-putting and makes those of us with both genders roll our eyes hard.
You will never see a mother with both sons and daughters trying to invent a ridiculous identity around this, and that tells you everything you need to know.
Anonymous wrote:As a mom of 3 boys #boymom is something silly and insecure women do.
Anonymous wrote:Moms of boys only get it
Anonymous wrote:I have many friends with all boys- and they all seem to have this solidarity with one another. They post pictures with #boymom and are always joking with each other as if they are part of a secret club. I just have one girl but don’t feel any kind of solidarity with other parents of girls. It’s very fascinating to me! Do moms of multiple boys feel that it is a unique experience?