For those who say "No", what's your end game? Do you stick it out for the rest of your lives? Do it for the kids? IMO, doing it for the kids I understand, but for how long? Some things need to have their end, kids or not. JMO.

Anonymous wrote:No. Same as 09:36. Except not good on paper, we just had the same sense of humor. Now he’s just a grumpy jerk.

09:36 here, and my DH is also a grump. Why do men seem to get so grumpy as they get older??

No.

We're just very different, and want different things out of life, and the older we get, the harder it is to just let it roll off. We get along, and make it work, but making it work is exhausting and depressing, and it makes me sad when I think about riding out the rest of my days like this.

Anonymous wrote:No way. I’ve been married for 15 years. And about 5 years ago I found the woman I was meant to be with. I’m happy and content in my marriage but my heart is elsewhere.

Similar for me too. Hugs. Life in unpredictable.

No. Same as 09:36. Except not good on paper, we just had the same sense of humor. Now he’s just a grumpy jerk.

Absolutely! For 35 years it has been a great adventure.

No. I knew he wasn’t right but he was such a good catch on paper. He’s not a bad person, but we just have very different values and lifestyles. Everything is a power struggle.

Absolutely.

1000 times over yes. Never thought I could be so lucky.

Yes

No way. I’ve been married for 15 years. And about 5 years ago I found the woman I was meant to be with. I’m happy and content in my marriage but my heart is elsewhere.

Yes because she makes me laugh more than she makes me angry and we’re really good at this parenting thing together.

Yes, because she is so much smarter than me it was my only chance for smart kids. Unlikely another smart woman would find me that attractive.

No, I would not because she is too attached to her birth family.

If you could go back in time, would you still marry the same person you are currently married to? If no, why not?