Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:56     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.

Maybe he's thinking of the "ideal" you.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:56     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.


Nothing to understand. Stop trying.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:55     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.


To last longer later with you. He’s so horny for you it’s an immediate need. You are lucky. Stop pondering and go jump him.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:55     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.

He probably just wants a quick release...not all of the extra drama and stuff that you bring to the bedroom. And yes, by reading your post, you definitely bring drama.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:54     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.



This is not going to end well.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:54     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

I think OP is asking why her husband has to masturbate when he can have the real thing. OP doesn't understand human nature.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:53     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Op here. Yes I’m American. I just don’t understand why when I’m in house he wouldn’t initiate with me instead of going off alone and thinking of me.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:52     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

No, it’s a compliment.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:51     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Because he doesn't have to constantly reassure his hand that it's a good lover and the best he's ever had. Nothing kills desire more than an insecure partner.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:50     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Masturbation is not explicit unless it’s on video. Seriously though, grow up. If my husband was actually thinking of me when he spanked it I’d be super flattered. It’s nearly romantic. Most adult humans use that time to think of anyone new (or from the past).
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:49     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Are you American? Everyone masturbates. I mean everyone.

I know some cultures/religions forbid it. But it's natural.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:48     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

OP, if he is alone, then you are not there. See how that works?
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:48     Subject: Re:Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

You'd rather he thinks about someone else???
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:47     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Damn you are so insecure.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2018 20:46     Subject: Would it upset you if your husband admitted to thinking of you during his alone time?

Trying not to be explicit? I thought we had a good sex life. I rarely turn him down. So it’s not like I’m unavailable. Why would he do that when he can have the real thing?