Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 20:39     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Anonymous wrote:If you had to find this out by digging as opposed to him telling you, it's a pretty bad sign.


If it was 10 years ago and wasn’t domestic violence, get over it. Shall we dredge up every stupid thing we all did in college? Are you a saint yourself?
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 20:28     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

OP here. It was an arrest . No conviction. I have no further details. He didn’t tell me. I did some research on my own. Should I ask him directly?
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 18:38     Subject: Re:How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Anonymous wrote:If it was A&B towards a woman, ANY woman, I'd leave and never return.
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Arrest but no conviction could well indicate a false accusation. It happens.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:57     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

If you had to find this out by digging as opposed to him telling you, it's a pretty bad sign.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:40     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

"Meh", not "men"". Although that's probably accurate as well.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:40     Subject: Re:How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Anonymous wrote:If it was A&B towards a woman, ANY woman, I'd leave and never return.

If it was a bar fight as mentioned above - get an explanation.


This. Bar fight? Men. DV? Hard pass.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:36     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

You need more information. What state is the conviction in?
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:34     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

It depends if it was just an arrest or an actual conviction.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:33     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Huge concern. Huge.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 17:29     Subject: Re:How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

If it was A&B towards a woman, ANY woman, I'd leave and never return.

If it was a bar fight as mentioned above - get an explanation.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 13:49     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Concern for what? You are hiring this person as an employee? You are dating this person? You are this person and you plan to apply for a clearance? More context!
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 13:39     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Probably a bar fight
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 13:01     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

I agree context matters, but pay for the full background check. What I was initially told was a youthful misdemeanor drug arrest of my ex’s then fiancée turned out to be a decade of arrests for hard drugs and prostitution. He didn’t even know himself.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 12:58     Subject: Re:How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

Depends on the circumstances. If by some small chance it was the felony flavor (like on a cop) and not the more common class 1 misdemeanor than I would be very concerned. But if it was the later I'd still want to know the circumstances before passing judgment. Example, was he a pimp? or was he drunk and got into a fight with some guy that grabbed his GF's butt. Context matters.
Anonymous
Post 08/14/2018 12:43     Subject: How much of a concern is an arrest for assault and battery?

10 years ago when person was in there 20s. Can’t find further charges?