Visit an area nudist resort, you’ll find a variety of people looking to explore. Nudist resorts offer a safe place to socialize with people without pressure. Get involved and you’ll soon learn who is looking for who and you’ll get a great tan while doing it.

If you want to experiment go to one of the local gay bars and do it but do not add a male into the equation. If the experience doesn't work out you can always go back to a man.

You could join a swingers website, but unless you are incredibly hot or your FWB is incredibly hot AND hung...you're going to have the numbers stacked against you.

Dan Savage has in the past given the advice to those couples looks for a third woman to pay for it.

There are plenty of gay bars in the city but if you are serious about adding a male FWB that may be a challenge unless you meet up with a bi. I suggest you first just do FF to see if you enjoy it.

Anonymous wrote:A few years ago I visited Hedonism 2 with a FWB and we met an attractive single woman who was mostly interested in my guy friend. It was a crazy evening but the FF part didn't do as much for me as I hoped. The resort is pretty wide open when it comes to sex so if you want to try something you might want to go there.

You're suggesting the easiest way to find lesbian sex is book a flight to Jamaica? Wow, you don't get out much.

A few years ago I visited Hedonism 2 with a FWB and we met an attractive single woman who was mostly interested in my guy friend. It was a crazy evening but the FF part didn't do as much for me as I hoped. The resort is pretty wide open when it comes to sex so if you want to try something you might want to go there.

Also, there is more inclusiveness in the community to more amorphous "queer" identified women, those who don't identify as strictly lesbian. There are meetups and facebook groups, happy hours and events. Go to the new queer friendly bars highlighted in this article, for example, instead of mainstream bars:
http://dcist.com/2018/08/dc_two_new_bars_for_queer_women.php

You'll find kindred spirits on Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble. Also, look into Skirt Club, which is precisely for that purpose and has a DC chapter. It's not an app, but an online club. You have to apply. They do meet ups and you can chat online with other members.
https://skirtclub.co.uk/

I feel the same way, minus the FWB guy. Years ago I was talking to a woman I met through CL, but I think we were both equally scared and never met up. I think online is the answer but don’t know any specific sites to meet women who are looking to explore. I am pretty sure lesbians are not interested in “curious “ women who are inexperienced.

Anonymous wrote:There’s a reason they’re called unicorns.

Try fetlife.

What is fetlife?

Hedonism

Anonymous wrote:Single, middle-aged woman looking to experiment with another woman and possibly add in an existing male FWB. Where could I find an equally curious woman?

Same, wondering the same! Have been hoping it could be a fortuitous meeting at a bar or something like that, but so far have only been approached by guys. Too shy to approach the ladies myself.

Tinder

There’s a reason they’re called unicorns.

Try fetlife.

Single, middle-aged woman looking to experiment with another woman and possibly add in an existing male FWB. Where could I find an equally curious woman?