Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here. For me, twice a week is the bare minimum for a satisfactory sex life. Once a week (minus her period week) is what I get. That's like slowly starving to death.

She'd be happy with once a month. With me, at least.

This summarized what I hate about married sex. It’s becomes about obligation instead of desire. “Slowly starving to death”. Oh the drama!

I am a very horny woman. I still don’t want to be treated like a daily or weekly routine biological function. I want to miss my partner and be really *hungry* by the time we do it again. Not feel like a whiny man baby is going to be grumpy without using me for his daily orgasm like a kleenex. Which is what married sex seems like.

You sound...unhinged.

Divorced single 43yr old female—with kids.
I try to have it twice a week but I always want more. Scheduling is a bitch when you’re divorced and single and the primary physical parent of two little kids.

Anonymous wrote:DH here. For me, twice a week is the bare minimum for a satisfactory sex life. Once a week (minus her period week) is what I get. That's like slowly starving to death.

She'd be happy with once a month. With me, at least.

This summarized what I hate about married sex. It’s becomes about obligation instead of desire. “Slowly starving to death”. Oh the drama!

I am a very horny woman. I still don’t want to be treated like a daily or weekly routine biological function. I want to miss my partner and be really *hungry* by the time we do it again. Not feel like a whiny man baby is going to be grumpy without using me for his daily orgasm like a kleenex. Which is what married sex seems like.

We are the unicorns who are both fairly happy with once a week. (I used to want more, before kids, but now it works great.)

I'm 40yo divorced male with children dating a divorced woman who also has a child. We've been together for six months.

We're both active parents and due to our schedules, we can spend as few as one or as many as four nights a week together, so our number varies but it works because the anticipation builds and so far neither of us has rejected the other.

Anonymous wrote:Dw here. I would like 3-5 as well. I get maybe 1 a week to once a month to once every couple of months.

How do you let him know you want sex?

Mine would be 2-3 times a week right now. More onvacation if we are sans kid. Barely making it 1ce a week right now because of exhaustion and stress do both of us. I recall fondly 2/3 times a day when we were first dating and then first married 5 years ago.

Dw here. I would like 3-5 as well. I get maybe 1 a week to once a month to once every couple of months.

Woman here. I would like 3-5 times a week. Usually get 2-3.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here. For me, twice a week is the bare minimum for a satisfactory sex life. Once a week (minus her period week) is what I get. That's like slowly starving to death.

She'd be happy with once a month. With me, at least.

Is she screwing others? With your approval?

Who knows? I don't think so. Definitely NOT with my approval. Just saying, a supposedly LL woman who's happy at 1 x per week with DH would probably be wanting way more than that with an AP.

Mine is 1x a week.

I feel that my orgasms are more intense the longer I go in between. They are toe curling and practically medicinal at 1x a week.

Anonymous wrote:DH here. For me, twice a week is the bare minimum for a satisfactory sex life. Once a week (minus her period week) is what I get. That's like slowly starving to death.

She'd be happy with once a month. With me, at least.

Is she screwing others? With your approval?

DH here. For me, twice a week is the bare minimum for a satisfactory sex life. Once a week (minus her period week) is what I get. That's like slowly starving to death.

She'd be happy with once a month. With me, at least.

1x a week is my perfect number. My DH's is probably closer to 5-6 times. We usually have sex 3-4 times a week, which is acceptable to both of us.

I'd like to know how much sex you are having and what everyone considers the perfect amount of sex is in a marriage or other long term relationship.

I dont mean how much you would like to have, but how much makes you happy.

I'm sure the will be a big discrepency in what men think is pefect and what women think.

My husband and I probably average 2-3 times a week. I know he would like more but I just cant do it 2 days in a row anymore.

I think our perfect number is probably 3.