If you both still have feelings for the other and you have kids...you should be trying to work it out. Not that the kids need to know that.

He is your husband and the parent of your children and he owes you money? If you were a husband saying your wife owes you money, people would be all over you.

Your exchange is confusing. Your feigned confusion, his feigned autocorrect. Neither of you address things head on, both playing games.

Drama for the birds.
It’s over

He sent you a message which could be an effort to get you back, or maybe just to have sex.

When you didn't know what he wanted/played dumb, he pretended it was an autocorrect fail.

I thought it was going to be what my soon to be ex husband sent me. He also sent vague feelers. Except they weren't vague at all.

See if you can work it out

He doesn’t want to pay up and thinks he can put it off by getting back together for a bit.

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like he's checking to see if you are also feeling conflicted about your impending divorce.

Do you still want to be with him?

+1. He is sending deliberately vague feelers to see how you feel. This way if you say no, he has plausible deniability to save face.

Anonymous wrote:Well does he want me back?

“Want to be with you” could just mean he wants to have sex with you, not necessarily still be married to you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sent me an email with an inside joke. No big deal as we are still friends.

He wrote: Well I want to be with you?

I wrote: What does that mean?

He wrote: ??? I want to be with you.

I wrote: I don't understand?

He says auto correct miss understood what he was saying.

I called him and he said it was a misunderstanding.

WTF? How can auto correct get that exchange wrong?

Is what you wrote the joke, or was the joke something else?

No, inside joke was something else.

Kinda late in the game. I do still love him but it would really confuse the kids. Plus I don't know if I still trust him. He owes me a ton of money.

Anonymous wrote:He sent me an email with an inside joke. No big deal as we are still friends.

He wrote: Well I want to be with you?

I wrote: What does that mean?

He wrote: ??? I want to be with you.

I wrote: I don't understand?

He says auto correct miss understood what he was saying.

I called him and he said it was a misunderstanding.

WTF? How can auto correct get that exchange wrong?

Is what you wrote the joke, or was the joke something else?

It sounds like he's checking to see if you are also feeling conflicted about your impending divorce.

Do you still want to be with him?

Well does he want me back?

what didn't you understand? (assuming he's making up the autocorrect thing)

He sent me an email with an inside joke. No big deal as we are still friends.

He wrote: Well I want to be with you?

I wrote: What does that mean?

He wrote: ??? I want to be with you.

I wrote: I don't understand?

He says auto correct miss understood what he was saying.

I called him and he said it was a misunderstanding.

WTF? How can auto correct get that exchange wrong?