Anonymous wrote:My husband drives a Mini Cooper and we have made it work for two kids close in age (not twins). I have become very well acquainted with its limitations. First, you need small bucket seats for the infants— it is better to test them out at the store so you can see how it will feel to have the front car seats moved forward. The worst stage was the rear facing convertible car seat stage. Something about getting small but active wiggling kids into a backwards facing seat with the limitation of the two door Mini Cooper design... it was a back killer. Sometimes, I think we had to lean into the trunk to buckle them— so awkward. I can’t quite explain how tricky it is to get a child into a permanently installed backwards seat with a two door car, leaning from the front seat angle. I was absolutely incapable for a while due to csection. My husband was in charge of that stuff because I had the four door “family car” anyway. Plus the convertible rear facing seats took up the most space. That was the stage when our knees were quite close to the dashboard. The bucket seat (newborn to six months ish stage) was not great either, but we could wiggle the seat into place with the small baby already buckled in. We used a chicco keyfit. Several bucket seats did not fit at all. Once we were able to face the convertible seat forward, everything was better. We had space for our knees again and the twisting motion of getting a kid into the backseat through the two door design was no longer such a back killer. This transition doesn’t happen until 2 years in. Now that our kids can climb into their own seats at 3 and 5 years, I’m encouraging him to keep the car. It has been dependable.
roamet wrote:My husband and I are expecting twins in October. We live, work and socialize in downtown DC. We both presently drive small cars (mini coopers). We also have two small dogs (under 15 pounds each) and will have a full-time nanny. Neither of us have ever owned large cars. We are stumped on what car to get. For me, even a Mini Countryman seems huge. We want to get something for just the first 2-3 years (will lease).
- Are there cars with large enough back seats for two car seats and a small adult to sit comfortably - Outback, Forrester, CRV, anything else? Do any of them work with that configuration?
- If so, what car seats should we get (my husband is 6' 4" so he will need to push his seat all the way back
- If we have to go to 3 row SUV, what do people like that is easily maneuverable in downtown DC?
- Can we get any with a two row car for the first two years?
Thank you all in advance for your input.
roamet wrote:thank you all for your quick replies. And for putting my mind at ease. I also feel we should just focus on being with the twins and see where things take us. But everyone we meet has to have an opinion - my own family included - and insisting we get a big car. But those are people who don't live the way we do. They are either in the suburbs or even if in the city, drive everywhere. Thanks again. I am relieved.
Anonymous wrote:I have twins. Don’t worry so much about the car and get help lined up in advance. The first 6 months of twins is tough.