Anonymous wrote:We’d be in the absolutely no camp if in your shoes. Soul sucking commute. Hiring a babysitter saves you some inconvenience and gets you to work on time but subjects your 3yo to an hour or more commute a day. No thanks. If your kid is okay where they are, sit tight and hope for better in the K and 1st lotteries.
This. The long commute will be hard on everyone and preclude you doing anything else. Might not seem like a big deal when your child is 3, but with a 5yo you might want to do something more structured in the evenings like reading practice or giving your child a household responsibility or whatever. A long commute will make that super hard.