Anonymous
Post 07/01/2018 17:42     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
OP here. We had a great time! He kept talking about how beautiful my body was - and yup, has gotten a little paunchy with age - and I enjoyed getting together. He's such a kind man and good friend. I'm glad it went well, and thanks everyone for your encouragement!
Anonymous
Post 07/01/2018 17:17     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Make sure you both are good and drunk.
Anonymous
Post 07/01/2018 08:49     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Update?
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2018 08:19     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
He is going to bang you good. Don’t worry.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2018 07:24     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Shave down there and wear something low-cut. All good.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2018 04:05     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Gray pubic hair may make you feel a little anxious but many men do not mind.

Anonymous
Post 06/29/2018 14:07     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Wow! I envy you, OP. Have an amazing time and don’t worry, he knows that you haven’t been frozen in time. He will have changed, too, and is probably just as nervous and excited as you.
Anonymous
Post 06/29/2018 12:57     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Anonymous wrote:I had a long-term (multiyear) FWB when I was in my twenties, and we stayed friends. I'm recently divorced and we are getting together this weekend. We've been in each other's lives for over a decade, but last slept together when I was ~25 and he was in his early thirties. However. I'm really anxious about sleeping with him again! I'm just a little heavier than when we were involved, but have had a kid and have the attendant stretch marks and tummy. I'm trying to feel excited instead of dreading this. He'll also be the first man who's seen me naked (other than my ex-husband) since I got married! Please talk me down.


Why on earth would you want to be talked down?
You should run with this anxiety and embrace it completely - be scared, be nervous!
Being all wound up like this is only going to make the EXHILARATION you feel when you two finally hook up all the more powerful.
From one end of the emotional spectrum (fear) to the other (joy) in a matter of seconds as soon as he kisses you...WHOOOOOO!!!
Run with it girl.
Enjoy
Anonymous
Post 06/29/2018 09:07     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
OP, when the fun begins, toss on your sexiest lingerie, and pick something like a teddy. He has access to what he wants, and you might be more relaxed and comfortable. Do not forget the heels.
Anonymous
Post 06/29/2018 08:52     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Send me a naked selfie and I promise I'll help your confidence.
Anonymous
Post 06/29/2018 08:44     Subject: Re:Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Getting back with an old flame is like riding a bike - you never really forget how to do it!

Enjoy your weekend
Anonymous
Post 06/28/2018 23:36     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
He got older too. Trust me, your fine and he'll be thrilled to see you naked.
Anonymous
Post 06/28/2018 21:31     Subject: Re:Help me enjoy this rendezvous
He's probably got a few extra pounds as well plus other aging changes. Just turn the lights down low and turn the heat up.
gentry
Post 06/28/2018 21:04     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
Obviously he knows that you have had kids and that there is territory that comes with it. Good men don’t expect perfection.

Relax and be confident- you’re a milf now! I’d take a confident sexy momma ANY day over a swimsuit model.
Anonymous
Post 06/28/2018 20:39     Subject: Help me enjoy this rendezvous
I had a long-term (multiyear) FWB when I was in my twenties, and we stayed friends. I'm recently divorced and we are getting together this weekend. We've been in each other's lives for over a decade, but last slept together when I was ~25 and he was in his early thirties. However. I'm really anxious about sleeping with him again! I'm just a little heavier than when we were involved, but have had a kid and have the attendant stretch marks and tummy. I'm trying to feel excited instead of dreading this. He'll also be the first man who's seen me naked (other than my ex-husband) since I got married! Please talk me down.