Anonymous wrote:My concern is that if the FETs don't work, the record of unsuccessful transfers will make us ineligible for shared risk. We're doing this without insurance, so 2 FETs is already going to be $9000.
Wait, who told you this? I had a successful IVF cycle through SG in 2011. DC1 born that year. Then in 2013 we tried to use the two frozen embryos we had from that first IVF cycle. Both transfers failed. And then we decided to go for SG Shared Risk - were accepted (I was 39.5 years old by the way) and I got pregnant on the second cycle. No one EVER made mention of the failed FET cycles and my doc (Widra) seemed completely supportive of us doing Shared Risk.