Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 19:55     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 19:52     Subject: My husband became hot
sounds like a good deal!

i hate to say it but i echo - be kind, appreciative towards him, have sex, and maybe put some effort into losing the weight if you aren't already. and dress reasonably well
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 19:52     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
Hi Mrs Bezos!
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 19:49     Subject: My husband became hot
Some guys do that. Aging can give you a "harder" look, especially if you keep the weight under control, which flatters men who were a bit soft-looking when they were young.

Most men just get soft and pudgy as they age, though.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 19:13     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
Anonymous wrote:So he used to be fat? How much do you weigh?


No he was never fat just not considered “hot” he aged into being extremely handsome. I’m about twenty over my ideal, but I am still pretty , just almost 50 !
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 19:11     Subject: My husband became hot
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He was a handsome guy when we met but now 20 some years later he’s really handsome, in shape, smart, kind , and a very high earner. The years haven’t been as kind to me. Difficult Kids, depression, weight gain. I am finding myself for really the first time feeling insecure as I notice women noticing my husband all the time and some actively flirting. Not to sound strange, but the dynamic used to be flippped when we were younger. Not sure how to deal with it. I guess I realize he has an awful lot of temptation and he travels a lot.


Do you still enjoy each other? Laugh, have sex, go on dates? If so, I’d just do more of that and try not to worry.


We do Thanks. Good reminder
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:49     Subject: My husband became hot
Simple solution: lose the weight and keep initiating sex.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:43     Subject: My husband became hot
Anonymous wrote:He was a handsome guy when we met but now 20 some years later he’s really handsome, in shape, smart, kind , and a very high earner. The years haven’t been as kind to me. Difficult Kids, depression, weight gain. I am finding myself for really the first time feeling insecure as I notice women noticing my husband all the time and some actively flirting. Not to sound strange, but the dynamic used to be flippped when we were younger. Not sure how to deal with it. I guess I realize he has an awful lot of temptation and he travels a lot.


Do you still enjoy each other? Laugh, have sex, go on dates? If so, I’d just do more of that and try not to worry.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:39     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
Anonymous wrote:I'm jealous. Mine became a huge schlump


+1. But mine still thinks he’s a stud.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:31     Subject: My husband became hot
Lose the weight and you'll be fine
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:30     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
So he used to be fat? How much do you weigh?
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:30     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
Well, now that you notice do something about it. Use that money to hire a personal trainer, be less stressed with a part-time sitter, and healthy food. Simple.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:29     Subject: My husband became hot
Pictures or it didn't happen.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:25     Subject: Re:My husband became hot
I'm jealous. Mine became a huge schlump
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2018 18:20     Subject: My husband became hot
He was a handsome guy when we met but now 20 some years later he’s really handsome, in shape, smart, kind , and a very high earner. The years haven’t been as kind to me. Difficult Kids, depression, weight gain. I am finding myself for really the first time feeling insecure as I notice women noticing my husband all the time and some actively flirting. Not to sound strange, but the dynamic used to be flippped when we were younger. Not sure how to deal with it. I guess I realize he has an awful lot of temptation and he travels a lot.