OP - I have a few questions:

How often are you guys doing it? The longer between sessions - the earlier he will pop.

If you take holding up his mass out of the equation, does he last longer? For instance, when you’re on top?

Can you do it more than once per session? The second time he could last much longer.

“Stamina” is sort of a misnomer for this problem. Anything from brain chemistry to bladder irritation can cause PE. Also, guys enjoy it a lot more when they can perform as well. Maybe talk to him about it and suggest he see a urologist.

Reverse kegel exercises are supposed to help too.

Man here. Have him work one out earlier in the day, or go 2 rounds. How often are you doing it per week?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe his stamina is decreasing as he gets older, so he just "let's go"? Does he workout? Is he in pretty good shape?

He’s heavier than he should be, but very strong (sort of a former football player type of build).

but how is his cardio? I think that's more important, not muscle mass.

Just ask him to empty the chamber earlier in the day on the days that you’re going to do it.

There could be a number of problems, first talk to him. get him to see a doctor.

^^^Remember that skit from the Chappelle Show... "wrap it up"? Lol!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why? He's 40, that's why.

If you don't like it, you'll have to do some manual labor, get some meds, or trade-in for a new model.

Wait, I thought men lasted longer as they got older? You’re telling me that they’re quick on the draw in their 20s *and* their 40s? I only got ten decent years in the middle?

It's not/has never been an issue for my now 47yo dh.

Anonymous wrote:Why? He's 40, that's why.

If you don't like it, you'll have to do some manual labor, get some meds, or trade-in for a new model.

Wait, I thought men lasted longer as they got older? You’re telling me that they’re quick on the draw in their 20s *and* their 40s? I only got ten decent years in the middle?

Why? He's 40, that's why.

If you don't like it, you'll have to do some manual labor, get some meds, or trade-in for a new model.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe his stamina is decreasing as he gets older, so he just "let's go"? Does he workout? Is he in pretty good shape?

He’s heavier than he should be, but very strong (sort of a former football player type of build).

sorry "lets go".

Maybe his stamina is decreasing as he gets older, so he just "let's go"? Does he workout? Is he in pretty good shape?

Anonymous wrote:When a man and a woman love each other very much, there is this thing they do.

No the other thing. It’s called speaking to each other.

Sure, but I’m afraid of hurting or insulting him.

When a man and a woman love each other very much, there is this thing they do.

No the other thing. It’s called speaking to each other.

[non explicit] - DH (40 years old) has never had amazing stamina but in the last few months he has finished within a minute - maybe 10 or 15 strokes. I haven’t said anything, but I’m sure he knows that’s not most women’s ideal. Could he be ill in some way? Is there anything I can do to help without harming?