My thought is that Larla can define herself however she wants, and I'd respect that.

There is a teenage girl (Larla) who is dating another teenage girl (both have very short hair and dress like guys). Larla has previously come out and declared herself a lesbian. Her girlfriend is now identifying as a boy and is wanting to start the sex change process. Larla no longer considers herself a lesbian because she is now dating a “dude’”. Thoughts ?