Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 20:08     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
It would be worse if it were the same ethnic/racial mix because I probably know the person, haha, and it would be creepy...
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 20:02     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Any white guy would be more angry if found his wife banged a black guy. That even might hold for Asian/Hispanic guys too (would be angry about a black guy).
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:33     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Honestly it would be worse if they were the same race (southeast Asian), because then there would be a more likely chance he would want to be with that person instead of just F them.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:32     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.


What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?


So personal attraction aligns you with a political affiliation?

It's odd to say you arent attracted to ANY people of a certain race in the whole world. The variety of looks among Black people is enoormous- saying you would never be attracted to any of them is about more than a physical preference.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:30     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
At a very primal level, sometimes people of different race smell different to me - not bad, just different. Maybe it’s dietary. Sometimes people of MY race smell bad to me. However, scent does impact how attractive a person is to me.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:25     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.


What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?


So personal attraction aligns you with a political affiliation?


When you determine attractiveness by skin color, it fits his followers. I'm white. I find Halle Berry very attractive, pretty much irresistible. Whoopi Goldberg does nothing for me. Diane Lane is spectacular. Sandra Burnhardt - I'd rather perform self-castration than sleep with her.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:17     Subject: Re:What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Anonymous wrote:Why would it make a difference? Cheating is cheating. It's devastating no mattwr what.


Because, for instance, if a successful black man leaves a black women, it's assumed it would be for a white woman. That is a really touchy subject that's fraught with insecurities and pain.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:13     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.


What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?


So personal attraction aligns you with a political affiliation?
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:09     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Anonymous wrote:I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.


What is how do you know you are talking to a trump supporter, Alex?
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:08     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Anonymous wrote:purple will make me even more upset


Not a raven's fan?
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:07     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
purple will make me even more upset
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:03     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
I would be surprised, because my husband (and I) are both not attracted to black people.

My ex on the other hand? He had a thing for Asian and Latina women so it wouldn’t have surprised me.

DH and I are both white.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:03     Subject: Re:What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Why would it make a difference? Cheating is cheating. It's devastating no mattwr what.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:03     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
That would be the least of my concerns.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2018 18:00     Subject: What if your spouse's AP were a different race than you?
Would that make it any worse for you? I know, for some people, that this is a real sore spot. Like, to be frank, often for white men and women of color. Before you ask, I'm just asking because I'm bored.