Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A good school is one my kid thrives at. Seriously. That means the facilities and teachers are adequate to support her academic and social development.
Agree with this. My kid ended up being different than I imagined (who knew) and the environment she thrives in looks different than I expected.
Exactly. It's important to remember what we're aiming for here: Presumably most of us want to raise happy, well-adjusted, compassionate, and contributing members of society who find their own path to happiness. A huge part of that means finding a school that encourages them to learn, grow, and discover who they are and what they're passionate about.
Human beings are inherently competitive and insecure, so we crave recognition--magnet programs, high-ranking schools, big houses, fancy cars, etc.--but there's zero guarantee any of that will contribute to the above goal.
Keep your eye on the prize.