Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 18:01     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also, sex, but that's both a symptom and cause.


What about sex? One wants and one doesn't? Why not?


Yeah. As for why there about 500 threads here about people trapped in sexless marriages. One partner is too tired. Resentment over other things that gets carried out via denial in the bedroom. Weight gain or other drastic changes in appearance. Boredom. Infidelity.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:59     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Money Money Money Monnneeeey!


What about money though? Someone spends too much? Can't afford things? What?


Someone spends too much. Someone spends on the wrong things. Someone can't buy the things that they want.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:53     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Anonymous wrote:We never argued at all. But I’d felt we turned into roommates. I asked him if he still wanted to be married and he shrugged. Luckily we didn’t have kids, and that was that.


When I talk to couples getting married I always say one of the most important things you can do is argue. Fight fairly but air differences rather than bottling them up, which just leads to distance and resentment
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:49     Subject: Re:What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Alcoholism. I'm waiting 3 more years until my youngest is out if college then I am out; unless he dies first.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:47     Subject: Re:What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Unresolved conflicts that lead to simmering discontent, lack of or waning sexual chemistry.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:36     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
We never argued at all. But I’d felt we turned into roommates. I asked him if he still wanted to be married and he shrugged. Luckily we didn’t have kids, and that was that.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:32     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Gambling
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:29     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Anonymous wrote:He was cheating. Chronically. He was emotionally abusive.


Do you know what lead him to cheat?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:27     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
He was cheating. Chronically. He was emotionally abusive.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:22     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Anonymous wrote:Also, sex, but that's both a symptom and cause.


What about sex? One wants and one doesn't? Why not?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:22     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
He thought I was cheating on him and shoved me during an argument. I wasn’t. I could never trust him after that.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:21     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Anonymous wrote:Money Money Money Monnneeeey!


What about money though? Someone spends too much? Can't afford things? What?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:21     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Also, sex, but that's both a symptom and cause.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:20     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
Money Money Money Monnneeeey!
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2018 17:19     Subject: What kinds of fights lead to divorce?
I'm always curious about why people divorce.

If you've divorced or are considering it as a solution, what are the BIG issues that you simply can't/couldn't agree on that ended up in divorce, or is heading that way?