Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:44     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
My wife co-slept the first of our two kids 14 years ago.

We have not consistently slept in the same bed since.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:30     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
My kid is 4 and still mostly co-sleeps. We have sex other places in the house.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:25     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The problem is your husband.


+1


+2


The problem sounds like OP.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:24     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Anonymous wrote:Um, hate to break it to you, but the problem wasn't co-sleeping.


THIS
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:20     Subject: Re:Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Sounds like OP is married to my ex-wife. She must have gotten a sex change and married some poor woman.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:14     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The problem is your husband.


+1


+2
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 20:13     Subject: Re:Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
He expects sex but can't cuddle???? Did you ever say no cuddle, no sex?

There has to be more going on here.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:41     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Anonymous wrote:Um, hate to break it to you, but the problem wasn't co-sleeping.


I know, right. She can tell herself that. Now she can find someone better.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:33     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Anonymous wrote:The problem is your husband.


+1
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:29     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Um, hate to break it to you, but the problem wasn't co-sleeping.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:28     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
The problem is your husband.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:26     Subject: Re:Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Anonymous wrote:Your 2 year old is not a "baby". You only have yourself to blame for this. You chose to have your kid in bed with you instead of your husband so....


You clearly didn't read my post. It was my husbands choice.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:25     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Nah, this is not the reason.
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:25     Subject: Re:Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Your 2 year old is not a "baby". You only have yourself to blame for this. You chose to have your kid in bed with you instead of your husband so....
Anonymous
Post 01/30/2018 19:20     Subject: Co-sleeping ruined my marriage
Last month I finally asked my husband to move out. I have been asking him to cuddle me for almost 2 years now. It's very important to me and he knows that. I can remember when he stooped. It was about 1-2 week after my c section. I have told him once our toddler goes to sleep he can push him to the other side so we can cuddle. We go MONTHS without touching each other. Many days I lay in bed at night and think to myself I have to remember to hug my husband tomorrow. We have lots of other problems too but without intimacy what's the point of being marriage? DH expects sex but doesn't want to cuddle or give me a massage/ fore play etc. Co-sleeping can be very bad for marriage. Many people warned us and now I get it. I tried to tell my husband this but he told me I need to "sacrifice" . He says the baby ( who is now almost 2) needs this.