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Anonymous wrote:Second marriage? Why? Don't see any need for it. I don't plan to have any more kids.

Are you implying that people only marry for procreation purposes? What about all the people who don't want kids? They should never marry? Or people whose kids are grown and for whatever reason those people are not married - they should be single forever?

People marry for companionship. Come on.

No, I don't see any point in getting married "for companionship". Nor do I see any point in marrying once kids are grown.

You can get companionship without the piece of paper. You are companions the whole time you were dating, right? Nothing about the wedding ceremony makes you more companion-y.

Marriage is a business deal. No point in signing up for that deal without a very compelling reason. Kids are the only compelling reason.

Anonymous wrote:1. Nice ass.
2. Trim
3. Enthusiastic about sex, giving and receiving. She takes what she wants.
4. No breast implants. I have plenty of tennis balls I can feel.

Really, she could be a total asshole and as long as she was skinny and had real boobs you’d be happy?

Someone who is not cheap
Someone who has no debt
Someone who likes to travel
Someone who is funny
Someone who is fit and decent looking, with hair!
Good grammar
Good career
Not sloppy

Anonymous wrote:Second marriage? Why? Don't see any need for it. I don't plan to have any more kids.

Are you implying that people only marry for procreation purposes? What about all the people who don't want kids? They should never marry? Or people whose kids are grown and for whatever reason those people are not married - they should be single forever?

People marry for companionship. Come on.

Someone with a private jet. I'm sick of flying commercial.

1. Nice ass.
2. Trim
3. Enthusiastic about sex, giving and receiving. She takes what she wants.
4. No breast implants. I have plenty of tennis balls I can feel.

Any one of the four that were missing was simply a deal breaker for me - and I broke up with/turned away a number of pretty amazing women that couldn't deliver on all fronts. I found a woman that had more than just these four qualities, so yeah, I hit the lottery my 2nd time around.

1) Someone who is attractive, active and fit
2) Someone who loves my child as if she was the bio-parent (which is exactly how I feel about her children)
3) Easygoing, fun-loving, self-assured/confident, and is self-less (puts the family above own needs)
4) Enthusiastic about sex and has a high drive that is put regularly to good use

Second marriage? Why? Don't see any need for it. I don't plan to have any more kids.

1) Someone who is active and fit
2) Someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies
3) Easygoing, fun-loving, self-assured
4) Enthusiastic about sex

I'm getting married for the second time soon. I'm a woman. This is why i'm marrying my man.

1) he cares about me but he also cares about other people. He does selfless things for others all the time.
2) He is kind and considerate.
3) I know I can always count on him.
4) we have a good time together and actually like being around each other.

I wanted someone who could control his temper, someone who laughed a lot, someone who was a little less "street" than my ex (which encompasses a lot).

According to the male married posters

Talk to any group of married men; it's no revelation, it's no secret, it's nothing new.

1. Motivated to better herself and family.
2. Responsible and independent.
3. Shows true care and affection for others.
4. Takes care of her health and body.

1. Comfortable in his/her own skin - self confident but not big ego
2. Flexible
3. Positive view of life - looks forward not backward
3. Enjoys sex

Wow, after monitoring this forum for a few months, I realize how marketable an older high-libido, fit, attractive woman is to men on this forum. According to the male married posters, most are not getting sex, or having emotionless robotic relationships with their current wives.

So, after being married for over 15 years, what 4 qualities are you looking for in a new mate.