Grounds for divorce! This is the tip of the iceberg. And I say this with a DH who is a flirt but this is A LOT.

Definitely not "just" talking. He would f*ck if given the chance. You guys have some issues to sort out.

Guess you shouldn't have snooped

I'd be messaging many attorneys and planning for your future.

He probably uses hookers too. I would bet my life on it.

*talking.

Anonymous wrote:I’m so sorry, OP. I dated a guy like this in my 20s. He’s looking for some strange. I’m sorry and it sucks. And this probably isn’t the only or the first time. How did he hook up with these women?

He’s not really trying to hook up with them. He just seems to be talking with them in a very suggestive manner. He’s actually talk to a couple of them in Europe. It seems like he just is having a peverse form of fun in hitting on random women.

He’s probably chatting with about 30 women. This is not normal.

My ex was like this, I posted before about an internet “friend” showing up at our door thinking she was moving in with him, and I let her move in and filed for divorce. Your husband is a narcissist and needs to do this with women. He needs constant approval and attention from women. It will not stop. I’m really sorry op.

Wow what a pig.

You must have low self esteem. There is no way you could not have known all this if you already admit he's been a narcissistic whore his entire life. How do you think you landed him?

He probably has a profile on Tinder.

I’m so sorry, OP. I dated a guy like this in my 20s. He’s looking for some strange. I’m sorry and it sucks. And this probably isn’t the only or the first time. How did he hook up with these women?

That is disgusting. I'm sorry.

The fact that it was hidden would be upsetting. I’m sorry. It’s a lot to sort through.

Husband left his Facebook messenger open and I snooped. So what.

I found out he has been messaging over 20 plus women. Long conversations. Many flirty. Most live out of town and no plans to meet up but this is stunning. It’s like a whole double life. It’s obvious he’s starving for attention and getting these women to dawn over him. Lots of pictures. Gym pics. Selfies. No naked pictures but many suggestive. Mostly him asking them to send to him. He’s always been a narcissistic attention whore. With all people. Disgusting.