Anonymous wrote:Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me start by saying I have never been one and don't plan on being one. However, the position of mistress really would suit me well in the sense of me being low maintenance and needing any equally low maintenance man. I was married for 20 years and that shit drained the life out of me. I was always tired and I was always stressed. I am two years into my divorce and the happiest I have ever been. The one thing I can honestly say I miss is the consistent sex. I truly have no desire to share my life with another person (at least not right now). I can afford my own bills and my number one goal is for him to go home afterwards. I would never cause trouble for him at home due to the fact that I do not want him as my responsibility. Again, I've been in a forever relationship, so I know what all it entails. Although I hate the word "mistress" the job description is kinda up my alley. And nope, my self esteem is totally intact!

LOL... No thank you. I doubt the demand for grandma as a mistress is that high.

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Anonymous wrote:So why not get in a no strings attached relationship? There's no stress of having some wife find out and come after you and you wouldn't have to schedule around his home life.

I trust this will sound a wee bit crazy, but because I am used to one man I would still work better with one man. The FWB situation has always struck me as being a bit "Tinder'ish" and I am not a Tinder kind of person.

My 3 year long FWB partner was a high school friend’s ex that I always had chemistry with. It wasn’t “Tinder-ish” in the least, and was very fulfilling while it went on. We ate dinner, we had a few beers on the porch, we had sex, we cuddled, he was out of the bed by 2am. I was friends with his family, but there was no expectation of me being present for family events. He helped me out when my car broke down. I could hang out with him and his friends from time to time. We had all the perks of a relationship, but no rules or expectations of a relationship. I still smile when he texts me now and then.

This description is actually exactly what I’m looking for. Sex and I need a couch moved from my loft to the curb for bulk trash pickup...

It is so much less complicated to have a no commitment fling with a guy who is single and available. It can last as long (or as short) as you both want it to. And there is never any worry about sneaking around so that the spouse doesn't find out.

+1

America's expectations for decades of monogamy are dumb.

The world could use alot more willing mistresses like OP. Everybody benefits and gets exactly what they want:
- the mistress gets a man who craves sex, willing to please, and will go home without drama
- the man gets sex
- the man's wife gets to NOT have sex

Win-Win-Win

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Anonymous wrote:Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me start by saying I have never been one and don't plan on being one. However, the position of mistress really would suit me well in the sense of me being low maintenance and needing any equally low maintenance man. I was married for 20 years and that shit drained the life out of me. I was always tired and I was always stressed. I am two years into my divorce and the happiest I have ever been. The one thing I can honestly say I miss is the consistent sex. I truly have no desire to share my life with another person (at least not right now). I can afford my own bills and my number one goal is for him to go home afterwards. I would never cause trouble for him at home due to the fact that I do not want him as my responsibility. Again, I've been in a forever relationship, so I know what all it entails. Although I hate the word "mistress" the job description is kinda up my alley. And nope, my self esteem is totally intact!

Doubtful.

Your need for negative attention is sad.

You must be a wife with a cheating husband. High self esteem, huh. Yep, going to bed knowing your husband's lips are another women's private parts. Yep, high self esteem.

Anonymous wrote:Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me start by saying I have never been one and don't plan on being one. However, the position of mistress really would suit me well in the sense of me being low maintenance and needing any equally low maintenance man. I was married for 20 years and that shit drained the life out of me. I was always tired and I was always stressed. I am two years into my divorce and the happiest I have ever been. The one thing I can honestly say I miss is the consistent sex. I truly have no desire to share my life with another person (at least not right now). I can afford my own bills and my number one goal is for him to go home afterwards. I would never cause trouble for him at home due to the fact that I do not want him as my responsibility. Again, I've been in a forever relationship, so I know what all it entails. Although I hate the word "mistress" the job description is kinda up my alley. And nope, my self esteem is totally intact!

Doubtful.

Your need for negative attention is sad.

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Anonymous wrote:So why not get in a no strings attached relationship? There's no stress of having some wife find out and come after you and you wouldn't have to schedule around his home life.

I trust this will sound a wee bit crazy, but because I am used to one man I would still work better with one man. The FWB situation has always struck me as being a bit "Tinder'ish" and I am not a Tinder kind of person.

My 3 year long FWB partner was a high school friend’s ex that I always had chemistry with. It wasn’t “Tinder-ish” in the least, and was very fulfilling while it went on. We ate dinner, we had a few beers on the porch, we had sex, we cuddled, he was out of the bed by 2am. I was friends with his family, but there was no expectation of me being present for family events. He helped me out when my car broke down. I could hang out with him and his friends from time to time. We had all the perks of a relationship, but no rules or expectations of a relationship. I still smile when he texts me now and then.

Me, too! except I'm currently married ...

You can get a steady FWB. He would probably be sleeping with at least one other person, but if you were a mistress that would be the case too.

The best place to meet a married man is Tinder. BtW, the same men are on all the sites.

The problem with FWB situations, most are secretly married, is that it fizzles out after a while.

If you can find a wealthy married guy, thats probably best. If you are fit, and stylish, even better. Dont ask too many questions, he will tell you everything in due time.

Anonymous wrote:So why not get in a no strings attached relationship? There's no stress of having some wife find out and come after you and you wouldn't have to schedule around his home life.

I trust this will sound a wee bit crazy, but because I am used to one man I would still work better with one man. The FWB situation has always struck me as being a bit "Tinder'ish" and I am not a Tinder kind of person.

So why not get in a no strings attached relationship? There's no stress of having some wife find out and come after you and you wouldn't have to schedule around his home life.

Please call me.

Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me start by saying I have never been one and don't plan on being one. However, the position of mistress really would suit me well in the sense of me being low maintenance and needing any equally low maintenance man. I was married for 20 years and that shit drained the life out of me. I was always tired and I was always stressed. I am two years into my divorce and the happiest I have ever been. The one thing I can honestly say I miss is the consistent sex. I truly have no desire to share my life with another person (at least not right now). I can afford my own bills and my number one goal is for him to go home afterwards. I would never cause trouble for him at home due to the fact that I do not want him as my responsibility. Again, I've been in a forever relationship, so I know what all it entails. Although I hate the word "mistress" the job description is kinda up my alley. And nope, my self esteem is totally intact!