Anonymous
Post 12/24/2017 01:31     Subject: Re:Spouse Survey

Anonymous wrote:woman
57
30 years

10 to all

Your wording of the questions is a bit sappy.


Congratulations you won the Best Couple of the day award!
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2017 00:21     Subject: Re:Spouse Survey

woman
57
30 years

10 to all

Your wording of the questions is a bit sappy.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 23:49     Subject: Spouse Survey

You are: Woman
Age: 41
Years Married: 9

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 6
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 9
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 8
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 6
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 19:48     Subject: Spouse Survey



You are:
Woman
47
Years Married: 20

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 8
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me:8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things:7
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me:6
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person:3
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 18:32     Subject: Re:Spouse Survey

Male, 44

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 9
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 5
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 9
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 9

But:

My spouse has frequent enthusiastic sex with me: 0

Therefore, we're gonna get divorced.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 17:54     Subject: Spouse Survey

Great to see all the positive answers...makes me think many of the complaints in other threads are just minor bumps in marriages where people treat each other well.

To the guy who puts 2s and 1s. How can you stay in that marriage? It sounds soul destroying.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 17:40     Subject: Spouse Survey

Woman, 31, 9 years

Straight 10s. He's a great guy. Our relationship isn't perfect, but we both work hard at making the other feel appreciated.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:56     Subject: Spouse Survey

Woman
32
Married 5 years and have a 5 year old

10
10
9
10
10


I feel very fortunate.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:54     Subject: Re:Spouse Survey

Man
48
Married 21 years

I’m the 2,1,2,1,1 guy, so i’ve Got that going for me which is nice..
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:52     Subject: Re:Spouse Survey

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 2
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 1
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 2
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 1
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 1
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:50     Subject: Spouse Survey

Anonymous wrote:Curious about how people perceive their spouses given all the threads on this forum.

You are:
Man or Woman: woman
Age: 42
Years Married: 15

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 9
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 10
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 8
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 8
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person:9

DH is a great husband and dad. He's also been very successful but not at our expense.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:36     Subject: Spouse Survey

jeez you guys married young

Woman, 39, married 5 years, 9,8,8,10,10
Pretty happy all around with my choices so far.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:08     Subject: Spouse Survey

Man
35
9 years

8
9
10
7
9
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:06     Subject: Spouse Survey

I'll play, why not. FWIW think my marriage is pretty good.

Man or Woman: woman
Age: 39
Years Married: 10

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 9
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 9
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 8
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 8

My husband isn't the most emotive guy, so he's not fawning all over me telling me these things. However, he's a great husband, great dad, good in bed, loyal and kind, etc. He's my best bud.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2017 16:04     Subject: Spouse Survey

Curious about how people perceive their spouses given all the threads on this forum.

You are:
Man or Woman:
Age:
Years Married:

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family:
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me:
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things:
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me:
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: