Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 12:23     Subject: Netflix and Chill

NP. Why are you so sure it doesn't mean "Let's hang out and watch tv together"?

Or put another way, if he actually just wants to hang out and watch tv together, then how do you expect him to suggest that?
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 12:18     Subject: Re:Netflix and Chill

How old is he/are you? Depending on that, he may just not realize the meaning. I didn't, my 17 yr old DS enlightened me to that one. Not everyone automatically knows that it means sex, since the phrase "chillin' out" doesn't mean having sex. It's not exactly intuitive.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 12:13     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Anonymous wrote:In terms of dating appeal, this is one step above a dick pic. If you're both just looking for sex, fine, but if you're looking to date and get to know each other first, understand that this is not his aim.

+1
He showing you up front where his interests lie with you. You can accept it or not, but you can never act surprised.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 12:10     Subject: Netflix and Chill

You sound like a waste of his time.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 11:47     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Totally what he meant. I'd block and delete him, unless screwing is what you are looking for...
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 11:03     Subject: Netflix and Chill

In terms of dating appeal, this is one step above a dick pic. If you're both just looking for sex, fine, but if you're looking to date and get to know each other first, understand that this is not his aim.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:53     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Been married 13 years, and for us Netflix and Chill means turn on a show and fall asleep. Enjoy it while it lasts!


That's what it means our house! I didn't realize it meant something else !


Haha. Us too.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:52     Subject: Netflix and Chill

If anyone says this non-ironically/without humor they should get dumped IMO
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:51     Subject: Netflix and Chill

It's the new "Go to my place and watch a movie." Aka, bang-it-out!
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:48     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Anonymous wrote:Been married 13 years, and for us Netflix and Chill means turn on a show and fall asleep. Enjoy it while it lasts!


That's what it means our house! I didn't realize it meant something else !
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:44     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Ghost him.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:44     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Been married 13 years, and for us Netflix and Chill means turn on a show and fall asleep. Enjoy it while it lasts!
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:43     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Yes, that's what that means. You could respond that you'd prefer to go out to dinner to get to know him better.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:43     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Yes, that's what it means. Are you physically attracted to him?
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2017 10:41     Subject: Netflix and Chill

Just confirming that this means he's looking to get laid--correct?

I've been out on one coffee date with him and just got a text asking about tonight to "netflix and chill"

Not really sure how to respond to it. After meeting him for 30 min, I'm not ready to get in bed with him.