Anonymous wrote:I'm not judging, OP - we want what we want. That said, even if he get's in shape again, there's no promise he won't gain it again.
My longtime BF has gained a good 25 pounds or more. Is he still cut with the perfect six pack? No. Will he be again? Perhaps? But I'm still very attracted to him and it doesn't change my love for him one bit.
It's not because I'm "nice" - it's because I love this man through and through.
Don't short change either one of you - there's no point in holding one another back.
This. Your connection seems superficial, don't waste any more of his or your time.