Anonymous wrote:NP here. Yikes - I am having my child checked for adhd based on teacher recommendation - assume I better watch out for this? It makes me nervous.
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My child's teacher does something for ALL students where the parents all get a weekly report on 6 different aspects of classroom behavior and participation. My child shines in some areas, and struggles in others. I give stars on the reward chart for all the positive marks--I do htink it helps my child to stay motivated to improve where he needs to. He likes the teacher, thinks the teacher recognizes his strengths, and wants to NOT upset the teacher. That's really the most helpful thing. If you don't have that, maybe you can build it artificially by YOU focusing on the positive things as well, or getting the teacher to report on some things your child can be/is successful at, at the same time the teacher reports on the struggles.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DC, 2nd grade, has ADHD in attentive type. We have a 504 in place for reminders, preferential seating, etc. Lately, DC's been coming home with daily behavior charts from the teacher. The teacher puts a hashmark on the sheet everyday. Looks like she marks a line every time DC is seen talking. Wondering if that's standard practice. If so, are we supposed to respond? Personally, it feels a little excessive, but I'm trying to keep an open mind.
If my child was talking so much during class that the teacher instituted a chart to bring home and show to me, I'd want to see it. I'd guess you're supposed to talk to your child. It might also be so you can't come back later and claim that you didn't know how bad the situation was. ADHD isn't an excuse to disrupt the class constantly - other kids are trying to learn too.
It's probably easier for the teacher to check a chart throughout the day than remember at the end of the day what happened during the day. She's got a lot of other things on her mind.
IMO, the remarks about positive vs negative focus mentioned above apply to you. You can choose what you focus on. Maybe you could make your own chart at home that's more positive, and she only gets a star on the days where there aren't any dings on her teacher's chart. And then whatever rewards you feel are appropriate.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DC, 2nd grade, has ADHD in attentive type. We have a 504 in place for reminders, preferential seating, etc. Lately, DC's been coming home with daily behavior charts from the teacher. The teacher puts a hashmark on the sheet everyday. Looks like she marks a line every time DC is seen talking. Wondering if that's standard practice. If so, are we supposed to respond? Personally, it feels a little excessive, but I'm trying to keep an open mind.
If my child was talking so much during class that the teacher instituted a chart to bring home and show to me, I'd want to see it. I'd guess you're supposed to talk to your child. It might also be so you can't come back later and claim that you didn't know how bad the situation was. ADHD isn't an excuse to disrupt the class constantly - other kids are trying to learn too.
It's probably easier for the teacher to check a chart throughout the day than remember at the end of the day what happened during the day. She's got a lot of other things on her mind.
IMO, the remarks about positive vs negative focus mentioned above apply to you. You can choose what you focus on. Maybe you could make your own chart at home that's more positive, and she only gets a star on the days where there aren't any dings on her teacher's chart. And then whatever rewards you feel are appropriate.
Anonymous wrote:DC, 2nd grade, has ADHD in attentive type. We have a 504 in place for reminders, preferential seating, etc. Lately, DC's been coming home with daily behavior charts from the teacher. The teacher puts a hashmark on the sheet everyday. Looks like she marks a line every time DC is seen talking. Wondering if that's standard practice. If so, are we supposed to respond? Personally, it feels a little excessive, but I'm trying to keep an open mind.
Anonymous wrote:The behavior charts should focus on positive behavior- what you are describing is an old school demerit chart. It is better for the child to work for positive reinforcement than to try to avoid negative. But it takes more teacher effort to reinforce positive behavior.