Anonymous wrote:Start by being more accommodating to his sexual proclivities.

The affair partner? I really don't see how giving him more oral is going to help the marriage.

I’m about to leave my marriage. By this time it’s intolerable for me. I detached and emotionally separate Long before imitating this and am doing so after thoughtful consideration, counsel, prayer etc. There are children, otherwise I would have ended it long ago. Your situation may be different. In my case there is not anything that soon to be ex could say or do to change my mind. Absolutely nothing. In my case my spouse did not communicate about anything of significance with me. They were great at chit chat but nothing of substance. Nothing. No initiative. No insight. Lied constantly. Has poor insight and poor impulse control. It’s the lies (about the most basic of things) and the withholding and omitting that are making me end it. They also through their career away for stupid poor choices and lying.

You're better off without her.

Move on. Get the new rest of your life back.

Can you give a back story about the marriage?

Anonymous wrote:Start by being more accommodating to his sexual proclivities.

? What are you talking about?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on this post, I am guessing it's OP's communication problem.

LOL

Start by being more accommodating to his sexual proclivities.

Anonymous wrote:Based on this post, I am guessing it's OP's communication problem.

LOL

I disagree that she might be with another guy. But we need more details op.

You can't. She's already with some other guy. That's why she left you. Move on!

Based on this post, I am guessing it's OP's communication problem.

I would like to give you advice, but we need much MUCH more information

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Anonymous wrote:Separated, but I want to get back together. We have kids, we just didn't work on fueling our marriage with love and partnership. She initiated the separation.

Do you know why? We can't help you unless we know why.

My guess is because she found another guy

Anonymous wrote:Separated, but I want to get back together. We have kids, we just didn't work on fueling our marriage with love and partnership. She initiated the separation.

Do you know why? We can't help you unless we know why.

Separated, but I want to get back together. We have kids, we just didn't work on fueling our marriage with love and partnership. She initiated the separation.