Anonymous
Post 12/20/2017 13:03     Subject: Re:Do you believe in family generational curses?

Not really curses.

There are purely genetic problems of course. Otherwise, it's probably the result of repeated behaviors, not necessarily a curse. Spoiling children rotting so they fail in life, generation after generation. Never taking risks. Taking too many risks. Bad attitudes about education. Physical abuse. Alcoholism. Behaviors such as these get passed on and people never seem to learn from sometimes. Someone mentioned the Kennedys. I wouldn't say it's a curse. Just a lot of bad behavior. You reap what you sow.
Anonymous
Post 12/08/2017 19:12     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

I sometimes wonder. Look at the Kennedy's
Anonymous
Post 12/07/2017 16:38     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Anonymous wrote:I don't believe in curses, let along generational ones.


This.

I do believe in inherited mental illness and the impact of dysfunction across generations. I’m fighting against it and winning. Started with my kids in infancy. One is 24 and showing it pays off.
Anonymous
Post 12/07/2017 16:23     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Actually, I didn't really before, but now I am starting to.

My maternal great grandmother (mother's, mother's, mother) lost her husband when he was in his 50s to a massive heart attack. This was in the mid 1940s.

My grandmother's (mother's mother) husband became very ill and pretty much bed ridden for many year and kept alive with life support. Eventually died at 72. This was about 20 years ago.

My father passed away from cancer at 67 after a short illness just this year.

So I am starting to believe my maternal family is cursed. God help my husband.


Cursed with what, death at roughly the age that most men of their generation died at? Sorry about your dad, he was the only outlier.


I believe it was sarcastic.
Anonymous
Post 12/07/2017 15:31     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Anonymous wrote:No. I believe in genetics and the tendency for people to behave in dysfunctional ways they learned from their parents, though.


I do too...genectics and learned dsyfunction are difficult to overcome. My family has both.

Staying away from alchohol and cigarettes is helpful too, and very hard for people who are self medicating.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2017 16:51     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Anonymous wrote:Actually, I didn't really before, but now I am starting to.

My maternal great grandmother (mother's, mother's, mother) lost her husband when he was in his 50s to a massive heart attack. This was in the mid 1940s.

My grandmother's (mother's mother) husband became very ill and pretty much bed ridden for many year and kept alive with life support. Eventually died at 72. This was about 20 years ago.

My father passed away from cancer at 67 after a short illness just this year.

So I am starting to believe my maternal family is cursed. God help my husband.


Cursed with what, death at roughly the age that most men of their generation died at? Sorry about your dad, he was the only outlier.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2017 16:45     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

No. I believe in genetics and the tendency for people to behave in dysfunctional ways they learned from their parents, though.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2017 16:43     Subject: Re:Do you believe in family generational curses?

Genetics.

Sad history of alcoholic gamblers--probably genetic predispositions.
Anonymous
Post 12/05/2017 16:41     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Actually, I didn't really before, but now I am starting to.

My maternal great grandmother (mother's, mother's, mother) lost her husband when he was in his 50s to a massive heart attack. This was in the mid 1940s.

My grandmother's (mother's mother) husband became very ill and pretty much bed ridden for many year and kept alive with life support. Eventually died at 72. This was about 20 years ago.

My father passed away from cancer at 67 after a short illness just this year.

So I am starting to believe my maternal family is cursed. God help my husband.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2017 22:22     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Ancestral karma, maybe.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2017 22:21     Subject: Re:Do you believe in family generational curses?

Yes. It's called a familiar spirit.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2017 21:48     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Anonymous wrote:Started thinking about different families backgrounds and how they often repeat their tragic family history.


Just curious -- how is this related to religion? Do the curses come from God?
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2017 20:58     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

No. Makes for a fun summer beach read, though.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2017 20:53     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

I don't believe in curses, let along generational ones.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2017 20:46     Subject: Do you believe in family generational curses?

Started thinking about different families backgrounds and how they often repeat their tragic family history.