I had a gas leak and called the fire department and the guys who showed up were calendar material. Dreams of doing them all danced in my head....but just briefly. But a girl can dream, right?

I find my DH's boss insanely hot and have thought about him quite a bit, ha.

It's no big deal. Men think about their neighbors, coworkers, friends, doctors, moms from school, wives' friends and family, anyone with breasts and a pulse. Not fair for the guys to have all the fun!

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Anonymous wrote:My doctor spouse gets hit on all the time by patients. It is just gross.

Funny enough, I saw the slightest sparkle of excitement in my OB's eye when he got up to call in the nurse for my exam "down there." He looks gorgeous in scrubs- brings out his eyes.

It is normal. I have a huge crush on my son's soccer coach. I told DH about it and he told me I had bad taste.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My doctor spouse gets hit on all the time by patients. It is just gross.

Funny enough, I saw the slightest sparkle of excitement in my OB's eye when he got up to call in the nurse for my exam "down there." He looks gorgeous in scrubs- brings out his eyes.

Hahahahaha.

That was hilarious.

No, OP it's not wrong.

Your fantasies are yours. Enjoy them.

Hey, let her enjoy her exam. As long as she's not doing anything inappropriate, why not?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My doctor spouse gets hit on all the time by patients. It is just gross.

Funny enough, I saw the slightest sparkle of excitement in my OB's eye when he got up to call in the nurse for my exam "down there." He looks gorgeous in scrubs- brings out his eyes.

Sparkle of excitement in an OB doing a pelvic exam? You are delusional.

For doctors, the infatuation is called transference and it’s very common from patients.

Anonymous wrote:My doctor spouse gets hit on all the time by patients. It is just gross.

Funny enough, I saw the slightest sparkle of excitement in my OB's eye when he got up to call in the nurse for my exam "down there." He looks gorgeous in scrubs- brings out his eyes.

My doctor spouse gets hit on all the time by patients. It is just gross.

Switching doctors? Crazy. I've had crushes on docs before and I just keep going, behaving appropriately. But afterwards, in the privacy of my own home...that's another matter entirely.

Anonymous wrote:I developed a huge "crush" on my doctor who was married. I switched doctors but never stopped thinking about this one. It's the craziest development of my adulthood and I never told anyone in my real life about it.

If ever given the chance...would you?

I developed a huge "crush" on my doctor who was married. I switched doctors but never stopped thinking about this one. It's the craziest development of my adulthood and I never told anyone in my real life about it.

(In my situation, a husband.) I can't help it...he's so cute. Is it SOOOOOOO wrong to think about him?? Ugh.