Anonymous wrote:I'm with OP. The kids of our relatives have no table manners or ability to make pleasant conversation. They seem totally mesmerized by screens.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm with OP. The kids of our relatives have no table manners or ability to make pleasant conversation. They seem totally mesmerized by screens.
They lack the ability to string together more than a few words at a time. They're not low IQ, it's just they're so raw for their age. It's honestly terrifying.
Anonymous wrote:I'm with OP. The kids of our relatives have no table manners or ability to make pleasant conversation. They seem totally mesmerized by screens.
Anonymous wrote:Not that they're not happy and nice, but if I'm being frank, honestly, their kids are so dull. We can tell our children run academic & soft skill circles around their solidly middle class cousins. I really don't think it's IQ, it's just environment and better schools and higher-caliber peers. Makes me so sad. I wonder if their parents are as cognizant as we are while we watch them interact?
Anonymous wrote:Not that they're not happy and nice, but if I'm being frank, honestly, their kids are so dull. We can tell our children run academic & soft skill circles around their solidly middle class cousins. I really don't think it's IQ, it's just environment and better schools and higher-caliber peers. Makes me so sad. I wonder if their parents are as cognizant as we are while we watch them interact?
Anonymous wrote:Ugh maybe use some of that money you have to buy yourself some humility and get some arrogance detox.
I feel bad for people who are extremely poor and struggle to make ends meet and put food on the table. That's a difficult environment to grow up in. I don't sit back and smugly think to myself "those malnutritioned children are so dull compared to my well fed child". I donate money, food and time to charities that help the less fortunate.
Money isn't everything, once basic needs of food, shelter and basic comforts are met if there isn't stress about basic provisions people can have lovely lives. Parents that devote time, love and attention nurturing their children is what matters. Teaching them valuable skills, morals and kindness. Your kids may be "running circles around the other dull poor cousins" but hopefully they aren't picking up on your snobby "better than thou" attitude because then They will be the ones lacking
Anonymous wrote:Oh.
My.
God.