Anonymous
10/14/2017 10:16
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
No, never.
Even if they haven't cheated recently, this is a person with poor integrity - they are okay with lying, cheating, dishonesty, betrayal, deceit. If you have those characteristics into adulthood, they don't suddenly change.
That lack of integrity is going to come out in other areas as well. They don't have the moral core that I look for in a partner.
Even if they haven't cheated recently, this is a person with poor integrity - they are okay with lying, cheating, dishonesty, betrayal, deceit. If you have those characteristics into adulthood, they don't suddenly change.
That lack of integrity is going to come out in other areas as well. They don't have the moral core that I look for in a partner.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 10:10
Subject: Re:Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
I'm male and have dated lots of cheaters. In my experience, over the age of 40 every woman is a cheater.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 09:55
Subject: Re:Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
It wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me. I’m married and have been for 30 years. I’ve never cheated and have no reason to believe my husband has ever cheated. But I’m also 50 years old and have been around long enough to know that life isn’t black and white. Good people screw up. Relationships are more complicated than the “once a cheater...” nonsense.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 09:44
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
If it's a pattern - cheated on every ex - hell no. However, my fiancé cheated on the girlfriend he had in his early twenties, and didn't on partners after that, so I consider that acceptable. He expresses remorse over his shortsightedness as. Immaturity at that time.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:58
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Anonymous wrote:Once a cheater always a cheater. Never met a reformed cheater. By the dcum confessions the cheaters themselves just feel sorry they were caught.
I was never caught, and I married my AP partner. I would never cheat on him. It's been a dozen years.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:52
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Not likely. My ex cheated on me a lot, so I'm very sensitive about it. But given the infinite supply of women he seemed to find to date while we were married, plenty of women are happy to date an active cheater, not just a past cheater.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:35
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Anonymous wrote:Once a cheater always a cheater. Never met a reformed cheater. By the dcum confessions the cheaters themselves just feel sorry they were caught.
DW here who cheated on a few boyfriends in my youth. I'm married now and have never cheated on my H. I considered those a different situation, not that I am "always a cheater".
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:33
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
No. But I’m older. Anyone over 25 who has cheated has poor character, and will likely engage in other behaviors that show no empathy toward loved ones. Doesn’t have to be repeated cheating. It just a good predictor of repeated assholery
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:27
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Once a cheater always a cheater. Never met a reformed cheater. By the dcum confessions the cheaters themselves just feel sorry they were caught.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:24
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Yes, if they had done the associated dirty work (eg. Therapy).
Aside from that, cheating isn’t usually as black and white as people want it to be.
Aside from that, cheating isn’t usually as black and white as people want it to be.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:24
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
GF - not too concerned, especially if it's one incident.
Spouse is a different ballgame and I'd need to know more of the situation.
Spouse is a different ballgame and I'd need to know more of the situation.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:20
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Anonymous wrote:Ex-wife or ex-GF?
Either.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:19
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Ex-wife or ex-GF?
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:15
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
No.
Anonymous
10/14/2017 07:13
Subject: Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?
Would it matter to you?